When we’re not defending and justifying, and we’re being very still, our answers can and do shock us.
BYRON KATIEThe mind usually says, “I know, I know, I know.” But the “don’t-know mind” is where wisdom lives.
More Byron Katie Quotes
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The most important relationship is the mind’s relationship with itself. In other words, the ultimate – and, really, the only – relationship you have is the relationship with your own thoughts.
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Who would you be without the thought that happiness depends on someone else?
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The whole world is simply my story, projected back to me on the screen of my own perception. All of it.
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No one has ever been angry at another human being-we’re only angry at our story of them.
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Your nature is truth, and when you oppose it, you don’t feel like yourself. Stress never feels as natural as peace does.
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Peace doesn’t require two people; it requires only one. It has to be you. The problem begins and ends there.
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My life is a contribution.
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If you want real control, drop the illusion of control; let life have you. It does anyway. You’re just telling yourself the story of how it doesn’t.
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It’s not easy to find your own way when you believe that you need love, approval, appreciation, or anything from your family. It’s particularly hard when you want them to see things your way.
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You don’t get to vote on what is. Have you noticed?
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Every uncomfortable feeling, every pain, every moment of stress & suffering is for your own self-realization.
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We do not mature through age. We mature in awareness.
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Suffering over things that have happened to us is nothing more than an argument with the past.
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We say to others only what we need to hear.
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Nothing terrible has ever happened except in our thinking. Reality is always good, even in situations that seem like nightmares. The story we tell is the only nightmare that we have lived.
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