When people feel criticized, they almost always defend the behavior you want them to change.
BILL CRAWFORDWhen dealing with problems, seek not to “change” some aspect of your life but instead, choose who you want to become as a path to what you want. Transformation and healing then take place as a process of becoming versus avoiding.
More Bill Crawford Quotes
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Living exclusively in the land of the head or the heart will always be a limiting, limited experience. The most successful among us have dual citizenship.
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The act of giving is simply a behavior, and the gift merely a symbol. It is the energy behind both that will determine their impact on our lives.
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True ‘magic’ is simply the ability to transcend what seems to be and, thus, transform one’s experience. Maybe we could all use a little ‘Harry Potter’ in our lives.
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The most powerful times in our lives can be the time between times, or life’s transitions that give us the opportunity to choose.
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Perspective is what allows us to step back and see the entire forest instead of just the same old tree we keep running into again and again.
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When we engage people positively, we create a receptive platform for the ideas and information we wish to communicate.
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A meaningful life is composed of a series of meaningful moments. If this is what we want, then the ability to infuse each moment with meaning would seem to be a skill worth practicing.
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The true measure of our belief in the validity of our values is our willingness to act upon them.
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You never want to tie your responsibility to another’s irresponsibility.
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One key to success is knowing the difference between knowledge and wisdom. One is information from the past while the other is the key to the future.
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The past exists not as a factual recounting of what happened, but as an experience that we are constantly recreating in our mind which means we CAN change the past!
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Trust is simply a set of expectations about the present and the future. The key is to ensure that these are chosen and evaluated based upon awareness versus fear.
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Regardless of what is being discussed . . . the issue is never more important than the quality of the interaction.
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Regardless of the problem, as long as our solution requires someone else to change, we will never know the power and promise of self-determination.
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The most successful form of correction is when the “other” feels informed versus chastised.
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