There is absolutely no evidence that it is harmful to children if their mother’s health, well-being and autonomy and control of her own destiny is maximized by work outside the home.
BETTY FRIEDANI can’t point to any major episodes of sexual discrimination in my early life. But I was so aware of the crime, the shame that there was no use of my mother’s ability and energy.
More Betty Friedan Quotes
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Regardless of your age, you will always have adventures, unexpected joys and unexpected sorrows.
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When I was in high school, even in college, I didn’t have any real image of a career woman or a professional woman.
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Getting older is an adventure, not a problem.
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Neither woman nor man lives by work, or love, alone … The human self defines itself and grows through love and work: All psychology before and after Freud boils down to that.
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A woman has got to be able to say, and not feel guilty, ‘Who am I, and what do I want out of life?’ She mustn’t feel selfish and neurotic if she wants goals of her own, outside of husband and children.
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It is easier to live through someone else than to become complete yourself.
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I love newspapers. I’ve worked on newspapers, all my life. I’ve always loved it.
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The situation of women and men is not comparable to worker-boss or black and white.
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Whatever I wrote was heretical. It offended the editors of the women’s magazines.
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The only way for a woman, as for a man, to find herself, to know herself as a person, is by creative work of her own.
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I wouldn’t be satisfied with a life lived solely on the barricades. I reserve my right to be frivolous.
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I knew one thing. I did not want to be a mommy like mommy.
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I understood somehow my mother’s frustration. And that it was no good not only for her, but for her children or her husband, that she didn’t have a real use of her ability.
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The problem that has no name-which is simply the fact that American women are kept from growing to their full human capacities-is taking a far greater toll on the physical and mental health of our country than any known disease.
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You can have it all, just not all at the same time.
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