I’m like cheddar: Yes, other cheeses are more ooh la la, but I’m strong, mature, and oh so delicious.
BETH DITTO
BETH DITTO
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Beth Ditto82 quotes“I’m like cheddar: Yes, other cheeses are more ooh la la, but I’m strong, mature, and oh so delicious.”
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I mean, if I was living to please people, I’d have never been in a band at all. I wouldn’t have anything awesome around. I’d just be bored.
Beth DittoBeth Ditto I knew that if I wanted to stop being a pushover I had to get comfortable with small rejections myself. That took some work, but because of it I can now say no to other people with a clear conscience.
Beth DittoBeth Ditto Products are a must – full stop. I’m sorry to say it, but that bob won’t look so sleek on its own – you need a little help. It doesn’t have to be the high-end stuff that they sell in the salon. Products you find in the supermarket are just as good, and sometimes better.
Beth DittoBeth Ditto I thought to be feminine was to give in to straight culture, or the beauty standard, but in my heart I had a flair for fashion and style. They were passions I kept secret because I didn’t understand I could love clothes and hair and makeup and still like girls.
Beth DittoBeth Ditto I always was really confident about myself, about my voice, myself as a person, my body, all of those things, but as a songwriter – I just didn’t identify as a songwriter at all.
Beth DittoBeth Ditto I was given baby doll toys myself, and they proved a stark reminder that my life was expected to revolve around childbearing – just as my mom’s had before me, and her mom’s had before her.
Beth DittoBeth Ditto True love is about being able to accept raw emotions, no matter how difficult.
Beth DittoBeth Ditto This is how I feel about everything that’s out of your control: once you make a record, it’s not yours anymore. There’s nothing you can do. It’s the way I feel about political movements – both of those things grow on their own.
Beth DittoBeth Ditto I am tired of spending a little bit of money in a lot of pieces because they keep on falling apart.
Beth DittoBeth Ditto My dad liked to boil a squirrel head and suck the brains out the nose. Smaller than a chicken, bigger than a rat.
Beth DittoBeth Ditto I have no control over what people think of me but I have 100% control of what I think of myself, and that is so important. And not just about your body, but so many ways of confidence. You’re constantly learning how to be confident, aren’t you?
Beth DittoBeth Ditto When you get a certain amount of media attention, I think people are like, “Where’s your other album?”
Beth DittoBeth Ditto I’ve belched a lot more since I had gall bladder surgery. I don’t know why.
Beth DittoBeth Ditto I have a very good relationship with myself. My favourite quote is, “What you think about me is none of my business.”
Beth DittoBeth Ditto We weren’t idiots, but I didn’t have that access to academic feminism. I had to realize, on my own, that feminism is not just about how far ahead you can get in a job and it isn’t about not wearing makeup. It isn’t about not watching your waistline. I had to recreate the world entirely.
Beth DittoBeth Ditto A few years back, when my style was “punk grandma”, I picked up an amazing pair of sandals – orthopaedic ones, with really thick soles. I’ve given them away to a friend now, because these days my look is more “1980s substitute teacher gone wild.”
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Whitney HoustonWhitney Houston We’ve matured musically, as well as in the way we think. We’ve also developed a higher sense of responsibility. This has refined us and these developments are really being reflected in our music and our dance.
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