In every area, working with what you habitually reject is one of the best ways to facilitate growth and transformation.
BERNIE GLASSMANThe extraordinary language of Nonviolent Communication is changing how parents relate to children, teachers to students, and how we all related to each other and even to ourselves. It is precise, disciplined, and enormously compassionate.
More Bernie Glassman Quotes
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When we don’t ask, we don’t let others give. When we fear rejection, we don’t let generosity arise.
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Sometimes you come to a fall and sometimes you come to white water. Your rowing has to adapt to the situation.
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The reason we get overwhelmed is that we’re attached to a certain result or taht we want to achieve a certain result or that we to achieve a certain goal.
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We’re creating a little niche for ourselves instead of working the whole canvas.
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Befriend what’s happening, not just who you’re supposed to be or what the world should be like. This is where you are now. So how do you care for yourself this minute?
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In that state you’ve immediately raised the mind of compassion, because if nothing is in, everything is in, and you are now free to experience yourself as the world.
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Look in the mirror, and laugh at yourself.
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I always tell people that if you get upset over what someone says, imagine him or her with a clown’s nose on and you won’t get so angry.
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Even if you’re only rowing down a stream, different things happen: maybe the wind changes, maybe the current, and suddenly everything’s different. So gently is really important.
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It’s very rare to be in a state where there’s nothing in, where you have no attachment to any idea or concept about yourself.
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The pursuit of enlightenment is for the purpose of the world, not merely for the purpose of the individual. Practices for enlightenment must lead to action in the world.
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When we bear witness, when we become the situation – homelessness, poverty, illness, violence, death – the right action arises by itself. We don’t have to worry about what to do.
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When you care about perfection, you care about an expectation. But there is also caring for where I am right now, for what’s happening right now.
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People get stuck a lot because they’re afraid to act; in the worst case,…we get so attached to some end result that we can’t function. We need help just to move on, only life doesn’t wait.
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Let me give you a wonderful Zen practice. Wake up in the morning…look in the mirror, and laugh at yourself.
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