I believe that it is impossible for two individuals not committed to their own and each other’s well being to sustain a healthy and enduring relationship.
BELL HOOKSIf we give our children sound self-love, they will be able to deal with whatever life puts before them.
More Bell Hooks Quotes
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Since loving is about knowing, we have more meaningful love relationships when we know each other and it takes time to know each other.
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The function of art is to do more than tell it like it is-it’s to imagine what is possible.
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Life-transforming ideas have always come to me through books.
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Forgiveness and compassion are always linked: how do we hold people accountable for wrongdoing and yet at the same time remain in touch with their humanity enough to believe in their capacity to be transformed?
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If we want a beloved community, we must stand for justice.
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To love well is the task in all meaningful relationships, not just romantic bonds.
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Once you do away with the idea of people as fixed, static entities, then you see that people can change, and there is hope.
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When we face pain in relationships our first response is often to sever bonds rather than to maintain commitment.
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When we drop fear, we can draw nearer to people, we can draw nearer to the earth, we can draw nearer to all the heavenly creatures that surround us.
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No black woman writer in this culture can write “too much”. Indeed, no woman writer can write “too much”. No woman has ever written enough.
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If you do not know what you feel, then it is difficult to choose love; it is better to fall. Then you do not have to be responsible for your actions.
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What we do is more important than what we say or what we say we believe.
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One of the most subversive institutions in the United States is the public library.
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Giving generously in romantic relationships, and in all other bonds, means recognizing when the other person needs our attention. Attention is an important resource.
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Knowing how to be solitary is central to the art of loving. When we can be alone, we can be with others without using them as a means of escape.
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