Knowing how to be solitary is central to the art of loving. When we can be alone, we can be with others without using them as a means of escape.
BELL HOOKSIf any female feels she need anything beyond herself to legitimate and validate her existence, she is already giving away her power to be self-defining, her agency.
More Bell Hooks Quotes
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I began writing a book on love because I felt that the United States is moving away from love.
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Sometimes people try to destroy you, precisely because they recognize your power – not because they don’t see it, but because they see it and they don’t want it to exist.
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To know love we have to invest time and commitment.
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All our silences in the face of racist assault are acts of complicity.
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Class is more than money. Class is also about knowledge.
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If you do not know what you feel, then it is difficult to choose love; it is better to fall. Then you do not have to be responsible for your actions.
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The one person who will never leave us, whom we will never lose, is ourself. Learning to love our female selves is where our search for love must begin.
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Since loving is about knowing, we have more meaningful love relationships when we know each other and it takes time to know each other.
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Honesty and openness is always the foundation of insightful dialogue.
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No black woman writer in this culture can write “too much”. Indeed, no woman writer can write “too much”. No woman has ever written enough.
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You can only realize change if you live simply. Once people want enormous excess, you can hardly do social change.
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I believe that it is impossible for two individuals not committed to their own and each other’s well being to sustain a healthy and enduring relationship.
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What we cannot imagine cannot come into being.
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There will be no mass-based feminist movement as long as feminist ideas are understood only by a well-educated few.
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I think life experiences are different for people who know what they want as children.
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