You could love your crazy people, even admire them, instead of resenting that they’re not self-sufficient.
BARBARA KINGSOLVERHow pointless life could be, what a foolish business of inventing things to love, just so you could dread losing them.
More Barbara Kingsolver Quotes
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Everything truly important is washable.
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Wars and elections are both too big and too small to matter in the long run. The daily work – that goes on, it adds up.
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Even feigning surprise, pretending it was unexpected and saying a ritual thanks, is surely wiser than just expecting everything so carelessly.
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Value is not made of money, but a tender balance of expectation and longing.
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You see mother, you had no life of your own. They have no idea. One has only a life of one’s own.
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People love to read about sins and errors, but not their own.
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Now, see, that’s why you want Internet friends. You can find people just exactly like you. Screw your neighbors and your family, too messy…the trouble is, once you filter out everybody that doesn’t agree with you, all that’s left is maybe this one retired surfer guy living in Idaho.
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Anybody can get worked up, if they have the intention. It’s peacefulness that is hard to come by on purpose.
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When moral superiority combines with billowing ignorance, they fill up a hot-air balloon that’s awfully hard not to poke.
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Empathy is really the opposite of spiritual meanness. It’s the capacity to understand that every war is both won and lost. And that someone else’s pain is as meaningful as your own.
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Eaters must understand, how we eat determines how the world is used.
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From my earliest memory, times of crisis seemed to end up with women in the kitchen preparing food for men.
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The bad thing about small-town life is that everybody knows your business…I suppose that is my central obsession. What we owe to society, what we owe to ourselves.
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We agreed with him in principal – we were little scientists, born and bred. But children robbed of love will dwell on magic.
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There are days when I am envious of my hens: when I hunger for a purpose as perfect and sure as a single daily egg.
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