As long as I kept moving, my grief streamed out behind me like a swimmer’s long hair in water. I knew the weight was there but it didn’t touch me. Only when I stopped did the slick, dark stuff of it come floating around my face, catching my arms and throat till I began to drown. So I just didn’t stop.
BARBARA KINGSOLVERShe kept swimming out into life because she hadn’t yet found a rock to stand on.
More Barbara Kingsolver Quotes
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You see mother, you had no life of your own. They have no idea. One has only a life of one’s own.
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It’s a great freedom to give up on love, and get on with everything else.
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The substance of grief is not imaginary. It’s as real as rope or the absence of air, and like both those things, it can kill.
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Insomnia’s different,” I said. It was hard to explain this to people. “You know the light that comes on when you open the refrigerator door? Just imagine it stays on all the time, even after you close the door. That’s what it’s like in my head. The light stays on.
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I didn’t study writing in school, I studied biology as an undergraduate and graduate student. So I think that I write fiction in the scientific way. I love invention, obviously; I love creation of character. But I do feel very rooted in the real world, even in the way that I create characters.
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Humans can be fairly ridiculous animals.
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I learned to produce whether I wanted to or not. It would be easy to say oh, I have writer’s block, oh, I have to wait for my muse. I don’t. Chain that muse to your desk and get the job done.
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A person could spend most of a lifetime in retrospective terror, thinking of all the things one nearly didn’t do.
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Empathy is really the opposite of spiritual meanness. It’s the capacity to understand that every war is both won and lost. And that someone else’s pain is as meaningful as your own.
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Our childhood had passed over into history overnight. The transition was unnoticed by anyone but ourselves.
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This is how moths speak to each other. They tell their love across the fields by scent. There is no mouth, the wrong words are impossible, either a mate is there or he is not, and if so the pair will find each other in the dark.
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If you can’t dress expensive, dress memorable.
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Good fiction creates empathy. A novel takes you somewhere and asks you to look through the eyes of another person, to live another life.
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The truth needs so little rehearsal.
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Listen. Slide the weight from your shoulders and move forward. You are afraid you might forget, but you never will. You will forgive and remember.
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I’m widest awake as a writer doing something new, engaged in a process I’m not sure I can finish, generating at the edge of my powers. Some people bungee jump; I write.
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I don’t understand how any good art could fail to be political.
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The changes we dread most may contain our salvation.
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I have seen women looking at jewelry ads with a misty eye and one hand resting on the heart, and I only know what they’re feeling because that’s how I read the seed catalogs in January.
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I don’t bring expectations to any of my books. I don’t tell people what to do. I want to invite them in.
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I know I’m a rare person, a trained scientist who writes fiction, because so few contemporary novelists engage with science.
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Hope is a renewable option: If you run out of it at the end of the day, you get to start over in the morning.
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Feeling that morality has nothing to do with the way you use the resources of the world is an idea that can’t persist much longer. If it does, then we won’t.
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When I want to take God at his word exactly, I take a peep out the window at His creation. Because that, darling, He makes fresh for us everyday.
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Now I’m starting to think he wasn’t supposed to be my whole life, he was just this doorway to me.
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Few people know so clearly what they want. Most people can’t even think what to hope for when they throw a penny in a fountain.
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