Punishment cannot heal spirits, can only break them.
BARBARA DEMINGTo resort to power one need not be violent, and to speak to conscience one need not be meek.
More Barbara Deming Quotes
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there is clearly a kind of anger that is healthy. It is the concentration of one’s whole being in the determination: this must change.
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Our own pulse beats in every stranger’s throat.
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The free man must be born before freedom can be won, and the brotherly man must be born before full brotherhood can be won. It will come into being only if we build it out of our very muscle and bone – by trying to act it out.
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The longer we listen to one another – with real attention – the more commonality we will find in all our lives. That is, if we are careful to exchange with one another life stories and not simply opinions.
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Our task, of course, is to transmute the anger that is affliction into the anger that is determination to bring about change. I think, in fact, that one could give that as a definition of revolution.
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Nonviolent tactics can move into action on our behalf men not naturally inclined to act for us.
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To resort to power one need not be violent, and to speak to conscience one need not be meek.
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People who attack others need rationalizations for doing so. We undermine those rationalizations.
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Vengeance is not the point: change is.
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The injunction that we should love our neighbors as ourselves means to us equally that we should love ourselves as we love our neighbors.
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A great many of us must move from words to acts – from words of dissent to acts of disobedience.
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Of course it can be said of jails, too, that they try – by punishing the troublesome – to deter others. No doubt, in certain instances this deterrence actually works. But generally speaking it fails conspicuously.
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All prisons that have existed in our society to date put people away as no human being should ever be put away.
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It is one thing to be able to state the price the antagonist paid, another to be able to count you own real gains.
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We cannot live without our lives
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