We cannot live without our lives
BARBARA DEMINGSurely all of us are nerved by one another, catch courage from one another.
More Barbara Deming Quotes
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The longer we listen to one another – with real attention – the more commonality we will find in all our lives. That is, if we are careful to exchange with one another life stories and not simply opinions.
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A liberation movement that is nonviolent sets the oppressor free as well as the oppressed.
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The point is to change one’s life. The point is not to give some vent to the emotions that have been destroying one; the point is so to act that one can master them now.
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People may find it more comfortable to listen to us if we equivocate, but in the long run only words that discomfort them are going to change our situation.
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Our task, of course, is to transmute the anger that is affliction into the anger that is determination to bring about change. I think, in fact, that one could give that as a definition of revolution.
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Nonviolent action does not have to get others to be nice. It can in effect force them to consult their consciences.
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Our own pulse beats in every stranger’s throat.
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It is one thing to be able to state the price the antagonist paid, another to be able to count you own real gains.
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To resort to power one need not be violent, and to speak to conscience one need not be meek.
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There should be no censorship of mail.
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All prisons that have existed in our society to date put people away as no human being should ever be put away.
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I think the only choice that will enable us to hold to our vision. . . is one that abandons the concept of naming enemies and adopts a concept familiar to the nonviolent tradition: naming behavior that is oppressive.
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We learn best to listen to our own voices if we are listening at the same time to other women-whose stories, for all our differences, turn out, if we listen well, to be our stories also.
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Vengeance is not the point; change is. But the trouble is that in most people’s minds the thought of victory and the thought of punishing the enemy coincide.
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Punishment cannot heal spirits, can only break them.
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