there is clearly a kind of anger that is healthy. It is the concentration of one’s whole being in the determination: this must change.
BARBARA DEMINGNonviolent action does not have to get others to be nice. It can in effect force them to consult their consciences.
More Barbara Deming Quotes
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To resort to power one need not be violent, and to speak to conscience one need not be meek.
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After the revolution, let us hope, prisons simply would not exist – if by prisons we mean places that could be experienced by the men and women in them at all as every place that goes by that name now is bound to be experienced.
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A great many of us must move from words to acts – from words of dissent to acts of disobedience.
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The injunction that we should love our neighbors as ourselves means to us equally that we should love ourselves as we love our neighbors.
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After the revolution, it might very well remain necessary to place people where they could not do harm to others. But the one under restraint should be cut off from the rest of society as little as possible.
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Think first of the action that is right to take, think later about coping with one’s fears.
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Of course it can be said of jails, too, that they try – by punishing the troublesome – to deter others. No doubt, in certain instances this deterrence actually works. But generally speaking it fails conspicuously.
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It is one thing to be able to state the price the antagonist paid, another to be able to count you own real gains.
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The longer we listen to one another – with real attention – the more commonality we will find in all our lives. That is, if we are careful to exchange with one another life stories and not simply opinions.
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A liberation movement that is nonviolent sets the oppressor free as well as the oppressed.
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Our task, of course, is to transmute the anger that is affliction into the anger that is determination to bring about change. I think, in fact, that one could give that as a definition of revolution.
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Vengeance is not the point; change is. But the trouble is that in most people’s minds the thought of victory and the thought of punishing the enemy coincide.
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Our own pulse beats in every stranger’s throat.
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All prisons that have existed in our society to date put people away as no human being should ever be put away.
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Let me be really here, here in this place and this time where I am.
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