Think first of the action that is right to take, think later about coping with one’s fears.
BARBARA DEMINGLet me be really here, here in this place and this time where I am.
More Barbara Deming Quotes
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We cannot live without our lives
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Gandhi once declared that it was his wife who unwittingly taught him the effectiveness of nonviolence. Who better than women should know that battles can be won without resort to physical strength? Who better than we should know all the power that resides in noncooperation?
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Let me be really here, here in this place and this time where I am.
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People who attack others need rationalizations for doing so. We undermine those rationalizations.
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The point is to change one’s life. The point is not to give some vent to the emotions that have been destroying one; the point is so to act that one can master them now.
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It is one thing to be able to state the price the antagonist paid, another to be able to count you own real gains.
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Of course it can be said of jails, too, that they try – by punishing the troublesome – to deter others. No doubt, in certain instances this deterrence actually works. But generally speaking it fails conspicuously.
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Nonviolent tactics can move into action on our behalf men not naturally inclined to act for us.
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Surely all of us are nerved by one another, catch courage from one another.
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There should be no censorship of mail.
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People may find it more comfortable to listen to us if we equivocate, but in the long run only words that discomfort them are going to change our situation.
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The free man must be born before freedom can be won, and the brotherly man must be born before full brotherhood can be won. It will come into being only if we build it out of our very muscle and bone – by trying to act it out.
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Vengeance is not the point: change is.
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After the revolution, let us hope, prisons simply would not exist – if by prisons we mean places that could be experienced by the men and women in them at all as every place that goes by that name now is bound to be experienced.
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Nonviolent action does not have to get others to be nice. It can in effect force them to consult their consciences.
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