We cannot live without our lives
BARBARA DEMINGLet me be really here, here in this place and this time where I am.
More Barbara Deming Quotes
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A liberation movement that is nonviolent sets the oppressor free as well as the oppressed.
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Nonviolent action does not have to get others to be nice. It can in effect force them to consult their consciences.
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Let me be really here, here in this place and this time where I am.
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After the revolution, it might very well remain necessary to place people where they could not do harm to others. But the one under restraint should be cut off from the rest of society as little as possible.
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The injunction that we should love our neighbors as ourselves means to us equally that we should love ourselves as we love our neighbors.
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After the revolution, let us hope, prisons simply would not exist – if by prisons we mean places that could be experienced by the men and women in them at all as every place that goes by that name now is bound to be experienced.
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People who attack others need rationalizations for doing so. We undermine those rationalizations.
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Think first of the action that is right to take, think later about coping with one’s fears.
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Vengeance is not the point: change is.
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Of course it can be said of jails, too, that they try – by punishing the troublesome – to deter others. No doubt, in certain instances this deterrence actually works. But generally speaking it fails conspicuously.
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The point is to change one’s life. The point is not to give some vent to the emotions that have been destroying one; the point is so to act that one can master them now.
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Our own pulse beats in every stranger’s throat.
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A great many of us must move from words to acts – from words of dissent to acts of disobedience.
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The longer we listen to one another – with real attention – the more commonality we will find in all our lives. That is, if we are careful to exchange with one another life stories and not simply opinions.
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Vengeance is not the point; change is. But the trouble is that in most people’s minds the thought of victory and the thought of punishing the enemy coincide.
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