All prisons that have existed in our society to date put people away as no human being should ever be put away.
BARBARA DEMINGThis is the heart of my argument: We can put more pressure on the antagonist for whom we show human concern.
More Barbara Deming Quotes
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The free man must be born before freedom can be won, and the brotherly man must be born before full brotherhood can be won. It will come into being only if we build it out of our very muscle and bone – by trying to act it out.
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To resort to power one need not be violent, and to speak to conscience one need not be meek.
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Nonviolent tactics can move into action on our behalf men not naturally inclined to act for us.
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Punishment cannot heal spirits, can only break them.
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Our own pulse beats in every stranger’s throat.
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Vengeance is not the point: change is.
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People may find it more comfortable to listen to us if we equivocate, but in the long run only words that discomfort them are going to change our situation.
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Of course it can be said of jails, too, that they try – by punishing the troublesome – to deter others. No doubt, in certain instances this deterrence actually works. But generally speaking it fails conspicuously.
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Think first of the action that is right to take, think later about coping with one’s fears.
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There should be no censorship of mail.
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It is one thing to be able to state the price the antagonist paid, another to be able to count you own real gains.
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Surely all of us are nerved by one another, catch courage from one another.
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The injunction that we should love our neighbors as ourselves means to us equally that we should love ourselves as we love our neighbors.
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Nonviolent action does not have to get others to be nice. It can in effect force them to consult their consciences.
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We believe, in fact, that the one act of respect has little force unless matched by the other – in balance with it… The acting out of that dual respect I would name as precisely the source of our power.
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