Our own pulse beats in every stranger’s throat.
BARBARA DEMINGThis is the heart of my argument: We can put more pressure on the antagonist for whom we show human concern.
More Barbara Deming Quotes
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Nonviolent action does not have to get others to be nice. It can in effect force them to consult their consciences.
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The injunction that we should love our neighbors as ourselves means to us equally that we should love ourselves as we love our neighbors.
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It is one thing to be able to state the price the antagonist paid, another to be able to count you own real gains.
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Of course it can be said of jails, too, that they try – by punishing the troublesome – to deter others. No doubt, in certain instances this deterrence actually works. But generally speaking it fails conspicuously.
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All prisons that have existed in our society to date put people away as no human being should ever be put away.
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A liberation movement that is nonviolent sets the oppressor free as well as the oppressed.
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We cannot live without our lives
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The longer we listen to one another – with real attention – the more commonality we will find in all our lives. That is, if we are careful to exchange with one another life stories and not simply opinions.
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Think first of the action that is right to take, think later about coping with one’s fears.
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Punishment cannot heal spirits, can only break them.
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Vengeance is not the point; change is. But the trouble is that in most people’s minds the thought of victory and the thought of punishing the enemy coincide.
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Nonviolent tactics can move into action on our behalf men not naturally inclined to act for us.
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A great many of us must move from words to acts – from words of dissent to acts of disobedience.
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This is the heart of my argument: We can put more pressure on the antagonist for whom we show human concern.
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The point is to change one’s life. The point is not to give some vent to the emotions that have been destroying one; the point is so to act that one can master them now.
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