Gandhi once declared that it was his wife who unwittingly taught him the effectiveness of nonviolence. Who better than women should know that battles can be won without resort to physical strength? Who better than we should know all the power that resides in noncooperation?
BARBARA DEMINGGandhi once declared that it was his wife who unwittingly taught him the effectiveness of nonviolence. Who better than women should know that battles can be won without resort to physical strength? Who better than we should know all the power that resides in noncooperation?
More Barbara Deming Quotes
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People may find it more comfortable to listen to us if we equivocate, but in the long run only words that discomfort them are going to change our situation.
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We cannot live without our lives
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We learn best to listen to our own voices if we are listening at the same time to other women-whose stories, for all our differences, turn out, if we listen well, to be our stories also.
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I learned always to trust my own deep sense of what I should do, and not just obediently trust the judgment of others – even others better than I am.
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We believe, in fact, that the one act of respect has little force unless matched by the other – in balance with it… The acting out of that dual respect I would name as precisely the source of our power.
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A liberation movement that is nonviolent sets the oppressor free as well as the oppressed.
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It is one thing to be able to state the price the antagonist paid, another to be able to count you own real gains.
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What is the revolution that we need? We need to dissolve the lie that some people have a right to think of other people as their property. And we need at last to form a circle that includes us all, in which all of us are seen as equal… We do not belong to the other, but our lives are linked; we belong in a circle of others.
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Punishment cannot heal spirits, can only break them.
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Think first of the action that is right to take, think later about coping with one’s fears.
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This is the heart of my argument: We can put more pressure on the antagonist for whom we show human concern.
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The free man must be born before freedom can be won, and the brotherly man must be born before full brotherhood can be won. It will come into being only if we build it out of our very muscle and bone – by trying to act it out.
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To resort to power one need not be violent, and to speak to conscience one need not be meek.
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All prisons that have existed in our society to date put people away as no human being should ever be put away.
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Surely all of us are nerved by one another, catch courage from one another.
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