We cannot live without our lives
BARBARA DEMINGGandhi once declared that it was his wife who unwittingly taught him the effectiveness of nonviolence. Who better than women should know that battles can be won without resort to physical strength? Who better than we should know all the power that resides in noncooperation?
More Barbara Deming Quotes
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Our task, of course, is to transmute the anger that is affliction into the anger that is determination to bring about change. I think, in fact, that one could give that as a definition of revolution.
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All prisons that have existed in our society to date put people away as no human being should ever be put away.
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A liberation movement that is nonviolent sets the oppressor free as well as the oppressed.
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The longer we listen to one another – with real attention – the more commonality we will find in all our lives. That is, if we are careful to exchange with one another life stories and not simply opinions.
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Nonviolent action does not have to get others to be nice. It can in effect force them to consult their consciences.
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There should be no censorship of mail.
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We believe, in fact, that the one act of respect has little force unless matched by the other – in balance with it… The acting out of that dual respect I would name as precisely the source of our power.
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there is clearly a kind of anger that is healthy. It is the concentration of one’s whole being in the determination: this must change.
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Vengeance is not the point: change is.
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This is the heart of my argument: We can put more pressure on the antagonist for whom we show human concern.
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Surely all of us are nerved by one another, catch courage from one another.
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After the revolution, it might very well remain necessary to place people where they could not do harm to others. But the one under restraint should be cut off from the rest of society as little as possible.
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Let me be really here, here in this place and this time where I am.
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It is one thing to be able to state the price the antagonist paid, another to be able to count you own real gains.
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After the revolution, let us hope, prisons simply would not exist – if by prisons we mean places that could be experienced by the men and women in them at all as every place that goes by that name now is bound to be experienced.
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