This is the heart of my argument: We can put more pressure on the antagonist for whom we show human concern.
BARBARA DEMINGAll prisons that have existed in our society to date put people away as no human being should ever be put away.
More Barbara Deming Quotes
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Surely all of us are nerved by one another, catch courage from one another.
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Our own pulse beats in every stranger’s throat.
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The free man must be born before freedom can be won, and the brotherly man must be born before full brotherhood can be won. It will come into being only if we build it out of our very muscle and bone – by trying to act it out.
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After the revolution, it might very well remain necessary to place people where they could not do harm to others. But the one under restraint should be cut off from the rest of society as little as possible.
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A great many of us must move from words to acts – from words of dissent to acts of disobedience.
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The point is to change one’s life. The point is not to give some vent to the emotions that have been destroying one; the point is so to act that one can master them now.
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People may find it more comfortable to listen to us if we equivocate, but in the long run only words that discomfort them are going to change our situation.
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After the revolution, let us hope, prisons simply would not exist – if by prisons we mean places that could be experienced by the men and women in them at all as every place that goes by that name now is bound to be experienced.
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Gandhi once declared that it was his wife who unwittingly taught him the effectiveness of nonviolence. Who better than women should know that battles can be won without resort to physical strength? Who better than we should know all the power that resides in noncooperation?
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Think first of the action that is right to take, think later about coping with one’s fears.
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Punishment cannot heal spirits, can only break them.
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Nonviolent action does not have to get others to be nice. It can in effect force them to consult their consciences.
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The injunction that we should love our neighbors as ourselves means to us equally that we should love ourselves as we love our neighbors.
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It is one thing to be able to state the price the antagonist paid, another to be able to count you own real gains.
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People who attack others need rationalizations for doing so. We undermine those rationalizations.
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