Think first of the action that is right to take, think later about coping with one’s fears.
BARBARA DEMINGVengeance is not the point: change is.
More Barbara Deming Quotes
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I think the only choice that will enable us to hold to our vision. . . is one that abandons the concept of naming enemies and adopts a concept familiar to the nonviolent tradition: naming behavior that is oppressive.
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Vengeance is not the point; change is. But the trouble is that in most people’s minds the thought of victory and the thought of punishing the enemy coincide.
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I learned always to trust my own deep sense of what I should do, and not just obediently trust the judgment of others – even others better than I am.
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Nonviolent action does not have to get others to be nice. It can in effect force them to consult their consciences.
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Vengeance is not the point: change is.
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We cannot live without our lives
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Surely all of us are nerved by one another, catch courage from one another.
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The free man must be born before freedom can be won, and the brotherly man must be born before full brotherhood can be won. It will come into being only if we build it out of our very muscle and bone – by trying to act it out.
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People who attack others need rationalizations for doing so. We undermine those rationalizations.
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This is the heart of my argument: We can put more pressure on the antagonist for whom we show human concern.
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After the revolution, it might very well remain necessary to place people where they could not do harm to others. But the one under restraint should be cut off from the rest of society as little as possible.
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Punishment cannot heal spirits, can only break them.
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Nonviolent tactics can move into action on our behalf men not naturally inclined to act for us.
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A great many of us must move from words to acts – from words of dissent to acts of disobedience.
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It is one thing to be able to state the price the antagonist paid, another to be able to count you own real gains.
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