Love is the kind of thing that’s already happening by the time you notice it, that’s how it works, and no matter how old you get, that doesn’t change. Except that you can break it up into two entirely distinct types — love where there’s an end in sight and love where there isn’t.
BANANA YOSHIMOTOWhen things get really bad, you take comfort in the placeness of a place.
More Banana Yoshimoto Quotes
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Things look different depending on your perspective. As I see it, fighting to bridge those gaps isn’t what really matters. The most important thing is to know them inside and out, as differences, and to understand why certain people are the way they are.
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Sometimes people put up walls, not to keep others out, but to see who cares enough to break them down.
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Recognizing how totally ignorant you are is the only honest way to deal with people who’ve been through something traumatic.
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I never tell my boyfriend that I’m busy when I’m not. No matter how effective they are, cheap techniques like that just don’t agree with me. So it’s always okay, it’s always all right. In my opinion the surest way to hook a man is to be as open with him as possible.
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If you don’t say what you’re thinking, you end up lying when you really need to speak up.
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Why is it we have so little choice? We live like the lowliest worms. Always defeated – defeated we make dinner, we eat, we sleep. Everyone we love is dying. Sill, to cease living is unacceptable.
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You have the nicest window, you know? None of the others can even compete. It´s not flashy like the others, or bleary – your window gives of this nice, quiet light.
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I love feeling the rhythm of other people’s lives. It’s like traveling.
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I spent most of my time thinking, because I didn’t have enough energy to do anything else.
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But I have my life, I’m living it. It’s twisted, exhausting, uncertain, and full of guilt, but nonetheless, there’s something there.
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Over and over, we begin again.
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I wonder what it felt to move to a country where you didn’t grow up. I had thought about that often since my sister got married. Do you become a character in a story native to that land, or do you, somewhere in your heart, want to return to your homeland.
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I should have told her at the time. I could have taken a deep breath, looked away, and forced myself to say it.
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Truly happy memories always live on, shining. Over time, one by one, they come back to life.
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The ritual of our daily lives permeate our very bodies.
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