Why do some people try, try again, and why do some people not? That’s what I’m after.
ANGELA DUCKWORTHI don’t think that every child in America is going to necessarily aspire to, you know, a four-year degree from a liberal arts college or a certain kind of life. I think that people should learn to be excellent in the thing that they choose to do.
More Angela Duckworth Quotes
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The words that we use I think are symbolic of the values that we hold.
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One of the challenges of commencement speeches is that you have this older, wiser person who is accomplished talking to young, not-yet-so-wise, not-yet-accomplished adults or, in high school or middle school, even younger.
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Some of the things we do are great, but they often have these iterations that are not great. We screw up sometimes. We get rejected.
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Grit and self-control are related, but they’re not the same thing.
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There are going to be peaks and valleys. You don’t want to let kids quit during a valley.
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When people tell me I can’t do something, I have a visceral reflex to say, ‘Yes, I can.’
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Most people who are really, enduringly interested in something eventually find that it’s important, too – and important to other people.
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If the quality and quantity of continuous effort toward goals matters as much as I think it does, we may actually get more productive, not less, as we get older – even if we can’t pull all-nighters like we used to.
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I think the questions on the grit scale about not letting setbacks disappoint you, finishing what you begin, doing things with focus, I think that those are things I would aspire to or hope for for all our children.
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Nobody gets to be good at something without effort, no matter what your aptitude is.
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Boredom is a very self-conscious emotion by definition. Interest is not. So you can actually be completely absorbed in something and, at certain points in your development, not even realize that you’re into it.
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When people think of the word ‘drive,’ they often think you have it or you don’t, and that’s where we’re wrong.
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Drive is something that can be encouraged by a wonderful teacher, by a terrific classroom environment, by an awesome soccer team that you are on, and it can be squashed as well.
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Striving is exhausting. Sometimes I do say things like, ‘I wish I were not quite this driven to be excellent.’ It’s not a comfortable life. It’s not relaxed. I’m not relaxed as a person. I mean, I’m not unhappy. But… it’s the opposite of being comfortable.
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Many things matter other than our measured intelligence, so let’s get to work on them.
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