Out of the millions of people we live among, most of whom we habitually ignore and are ignored by in turn, there are always a few that hold hostage our capacity for happiness, whom we could recognize by their smell alone and whom we would rather die than be without.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe challenge of modern relationships: how to prove more interesting than the other’s smartphone.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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An argument in a couple: 2 people attempting to introduce each other to important truths – by panicked shouting.
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One kind of good book should leave you asking: how did the author know that about me?
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Politics is so difficult, it’s generally only people who aren’t quite up to the task who feel convinced they are.
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Our disrespect for thinking: someone sitting in a chair, gazing out of a window blankly, always described as ‘doing nothing’.
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Most anger stems from feelings of weakness, sadness and fear: hard to remember when one is at the receiving end of its defiant roar.
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Serious journalists often imagine society is adrift because people don’t know certain things.
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People who readily accept the need for a gym will resist that their personalities might need some work too.
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The media insists on taking what someone didn’t mean to say as being far closer to the truth than what they did.
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The attentions of others matter to us because we are afflicted by a congenital uncertainty as to our own value, as a result of which affliction we tend to allow others’ appraisals to play a determining role in how we see ourselves. Our sense of identity is held captive by the judgements of those we live among.
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He did not mean to depress us, rather to free us from expectations which inspire bitterness. It is consoling, when love has let us down, to hear that happiness was never part of the plan.
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How generous was it to offer gifts to people one knew would never accept them?
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Work is most fulfilling when you’re at the comfortable, exciting edge of not quite knowing what you are doing.
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There is real danger of a disconnect between what’s on your business card and who you are deep inside, and it’s not a disconnect that the world is ready to be patient with.
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Literature deserves its prestige for one reason above all others – because it’s a tool to help us live and die with a little bit more wisdom, goodness, and sanity.
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We should read other people’s books in order to learn what we feel; it is our own thoughts we should be developing, even if it is another writer’s thought that help us to do so.
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