The difference between hope and despair is a different way of telling stories from the same facts.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe challenge of modern relationships: how to prove more interesting than the other’s smartphone.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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We are presented with an unpleasant choice between either committing to peculiar concepts about immaterial deities or letting go entirely of a host of consoling, subtle or just charming rituals for which we struggle to find equivalents in secular society.
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Because it’s bad enough not getting what you want, but it’s even worse to have an idea of what it is you want and find out at the end of the journey that it isn’t, in fact, what you wanted all along.
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The media insists on taking what someone didn’t mean to say as being far closer to the truth than what they did.
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Feeling lost, crazy and desperate belongs to a good life as much as optimism, certainty and reason.
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What is fascinating about marriage is why anyone wants to get married.
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Bitterness: anger that forgot where it came from.
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Happiness is impossible for longer than 15 minutes. We are the descendants of creatures who, above all else, worried.
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After 40 (old age for most of man’s history), one should strive to be more or less packed and ready to go were the end call to come.
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There are selections so acute that they come to define a place, with the result that we can no longer travel through that landscape without being reminded of what a great artist noticed there.
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I went to church and couldn’t swallow it. The music was nice but I don’t belong there.
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Arguments are like eels: however logical, they may slip from the minds weak grasp unless fixed there by imagery and style.
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I passionately believe that’s it’s not just what you say that counts, it’s also how you say it – that the success of your argument critically depends on your manner of presenting it.
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One rarely falls in love without being as much attracted to what is interestingly wrong with someone as what is objectively healthy.
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We are like an exquisite high-speed aircraft which for lack of a tiny part is left stranded beside the runway, rendered slower than a tractor or bicycle.
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Not being understood may be taken as a sign that there is much in one to understand.
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