Artistic accounts involve severe abbreviations of what reality will force upon us.
ALAIN DE BOTTONAt the heart of every frustration lies a basic structure: the collision of a wish with an unyielding reality.
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We may seek a fortune for no greater reason than to secure the respect and attention of people who would otherwise look straight through us.
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One of the unexpectedly important things that art can do for us is to teach us how to suffer more successfully.
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You have to be quite heavily invested in someone to do them the honour of telling them you’re annoyed with them.
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The longing for a destiny is no nowhere stronger than in our romantic life. All too often forced to share our bed with those who cannot fathom our soul, can we not be forgiven if we believe ourselves fated to stumble one day upon the man or woman of our dreams.
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Arguments are like eels: however logical, they may slip from the minds weak grasp unless fixed there by imagery and style.
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The arrogance that says analysing the relationship between reasons and causes is more important than writing a philosophy of shyness or sadness or friendship drives me nuts. I can’t accept that.
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What is a snob? A snob is anybody who takes a small part of you and uses that to come to a complete vision of who you are. That is snobbery.
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Most of us still caged within careers chosen for us by our not entirely worldly 18-22 year old selves.
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Paying tax should be framed as a glorious civic duty worthy of gratitude – not a punishment for making money.
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Politics is so difficult, it’s generally only people who aren’t quite up to the task who feel convinced they are.
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It seems that most of us could benefit from a brush with a near-fatal disaster to help us recognise the important things that we are too defeated or embittered to recognise from day to day.
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Only as we mature does affection begin to depend on achievement.
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I am in general a very pessimistic person with an optimistic, day to day take on things. The bare facts of life are utterly terrifying. And yet, one can laugh. Indeed, one has to laugh precisely because of the darkness: the nervous laughter of the trenches.
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The challenge for a human now is to be more interesting to another than his or her smartphone.
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Forgiveness requires a sense that bad behaviour is a sign of suffering rather than malice.
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