If we are inclined to forget how much there is in the world besides that which we anticipate, then works of art are perhaps a little to blame, for in them we find at work the same process of simplification or selection as in the imagination.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe media insists on taking what someone didn’t mean to say as being far closer to the truth than what they did.
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The best cure for one’s bad tendencies is to see them in action in another person.
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Work is most fulfilling when you’re at the comfortable, exciting edge of not quite knowing what you are doing.
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Anyone who isn’t embarrassed of who they were last year probably isn’t learning enough.
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Though it may feel otherwise, enjoying life is no more dangerous than apprehending it with continuous anxiety and gloom.
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The more closely we analyze what we consider ‘sexy,’ the more clearly we will understand that eroticism is the feeling of excitement we experience at finding another human being who shares our values and our sense of the meaning of existence.
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The flawless object throws into perspective the mediocrity that surrounds it. We are reminded of the way we would wish things always to be and of how incomplete our lives remain.
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to design means forcing ourselves to unlearn what we believe we already know, patiently to take apart the mechanisms behind our reflexes and to acknowledge the mystery and stupefying complexity of everyday gestures like switching off a light of turning on a tap
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Architects themselves tend to shy away from the word, preferring instead to talk about the manipulation of space.
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People who readily accept the need for a gym will resist that their personalities might need some work too.
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The media insists on taking what someone didn’t mean to say as being far closer to the truth than what they did.
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The good parent: someone who doesn’t mind, for a time, being hated by their children.
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Our minds are susceptible to the influence of external voices telling us what we require to be satisfied, voices that may drown out the faint sounds emitted by our souls and distract us from the careful, arduous task of accurately naming our priorities.
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It looks like it’s wasting time, but literature is actually the ultimate time-saver – because it gives us access to a range of emotions and events that it would take you years, decades, millennia to try to experience directly.
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One of the unexpectedly important things that art can do for us is to teach us how to suffer more successfully.
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Good sex isn’t just fun, it keeps us sane and happy. Having sex with someone makes us feel wanted, alive and potent.
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