The longing for a destiny is no nowhere stronger than in our romantic life. All too often forced to share our bed with those who cannot fathom our soul, can we not be forgiven if we believe ourselves fated to stumble one day upon the man or woman of our dreams.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe media insists on taking what someone didn’t mean to say as being far closer to the truth than what they did.
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Every adult life could be said to be defined by two great love stories: the story of our quest for sexual love and the story of our quest for love from the world.
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What am I supposed to do here? What am I supposed to think?
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Work is most fulfilling when you’re at the comfortable, exciting edge of not quite knowing what you are doing.
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Intuition is unconscious accumulated experience informing judgement in real time.
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I am in general a very pessimistic person with an optimistic, day to day take on things. The bare facts of life are utterly terrifying. And yet, one can laugh. Indeed, one has to laugh precisely because of the darkness: the nervous laughter of the trenches.
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I think people want to get married to end their emotional uncertainty. In a way, they want to end powerful feelings, or certainly the negative ones.
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We read the weird tales in newspapers to crowd out the even weirder stuff inside us.
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We study biology, physics, movements of glaciers… Where are the classes on envy, feeling wronged, despair, bitterness.
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The greatest difficulty of Travel is that one is forced to take oneself along.
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The arrogance that says analysing the relationship between reasons and causes is more important than writing a philosophy of shyness or sadness or friendship drives me nuts. I can’t accept that.
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Everyone returns us to a different sense of ourselves, for we become a little of who they think we are.
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It was no longer her absence that wounded me, but my growing indifference to it. Forgetting, however calming, was also a reminder of infidelity to what I had at one time held so dear.
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One of the better guarantors of ending up in a good relationship: an advanced capacity to be alone.
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Must being in love always mean being in pain?
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Anyone who isn’t embarrassed of who they were last year probably isn’t learning enough.
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