An argument in a couple: 2 people attempting to introduce each other to important truths – by panicked shouting.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe media insists on taking what someone didn’t mean to say as being far closer to the truth than what they did.
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The more closely we analyze what we consider ‘sexy,’ the more clearly we will understand that eroticism is the feeling of excitement we experience at finding another human being who shares our values and our sense of the meaning of existence.
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What is a snob? A snob is anybody who takes a small part of you and uses that to come to a complete vision of who you are. That is snobbery.
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People who readily accept the need for a gym will resist that their personalities might need some work too.
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There are selections so acute that they come to define a place, with the result that we can no longer travel through that landscape without being reminded of what a great artist noticed there.
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Curiosity might be pictured as being made up of chains of small questions extending outwards, sometimes over huge distances, from a central hub composed of a few blunt, large questions.
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For paranoia about ‘what other people think’ : remember that only some hate, a very few love – and almost all just don’t care.
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It’s as though either you accept [religious] doctrine and then you can have all the nice stuff, or you reject the doctrine and you’re living in some kind of spiritual wasteland under the guidance of CNN and Walmart.
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The materialistic view of happiness of our age starkly revealed in our understanding of the word “luxury.
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The finest proof of our loyalty toward one another was our monstrous disloyalties towards everyone else.
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We may seek a fortune for no greater reason than to secure the respect and attention of people who would otherwise look straight through us.
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We need objects to remind us of the commitments we’ve made. That carpet from Morocco reminds us of the impulsive, freedom-loving side of ourselves we’re in danger of losing touch with. Beautiful furniture gives us something to live up to. All designed objects are propaganda for a way of life.
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In a secularising world, art has replaced religion as a touchstone of our reverence and devotion.
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Although I don’t believe in God, Bach’s music shows me what a love of God must feel like.
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Must being in love always mean being in pain?
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Most good thinking has its origin in fear.
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