It seems the best work I do is when I am really allowing the unconscious to rule the page and then later I can go back and hack around and make sense of things.
AIMEE BENDERKissing George was a little like rolling in caramel after spending years surviving off rice sticks.
More Aimee Bender Quotes
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When the light at Vernon turned green, we stepped into the street and George grabbed my hand and the ghosts of our younger selves crossed with us.
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You feel wonderful, you feel like somebody knows you’re alive, you feel fear because it could be a bomb, because you think you’re that important.
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Language is the ticket to plot and character, after all, because both are built out of language.
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Sometimes, she said, mostly to herself, I feel I do not know my children…
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With my hand in his, I looked at all the apartment buildings with rushes of love, peering in the wide streetside windows that revealed living rooms painted in dark burgandies and matte reds.
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You try, you seem totally nuts, you go underground.
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And the warmth of the music inside her, did she believe, for even one glorious second, that her passion had arrived?
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I was right at the edge of their circle, like the tail of a Q…
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But the sky is interesting, it changes all the time.
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Many kids, it seemed, would find out that their parents were flawed, messed-up people later in life, and I didn’t appreciate getting to know it all so strong and early.
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It was like we were exchanging codes, on how to be a father and a daughter, like we’d read about it in a manual, translated from another language, and were doing our best with what we could understand.
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That’s the thing with handmade items. They still have the person’s mark on them, and when you hold them, you feel less alone.
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A Dorito asks nothing of you, which is its great gift. It only asks that you are not there.
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She is the first gesture that creates a quiet that is full enough to make the baby sleep. My genes, my love, are rubber bands and rope; make yourself a structure you can live inside. Amen.
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But what I kept wondering about is this: that first second when she felt her skirt burning, what did she think?
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