We’re all getting too smart. Our brains are just getting bigger and bigger, and the world dries up and dies when there’s too much thought and not enough heart.
AIMEE BENDERI didn’t mind the quiet stretches. It was like we were trying out the idea of being side by side.
More Aimee Bender Quotes
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It seems the best work I do is when I am really allowing the unconscious to rule the page and then later I can go back and hack around and make sense of things.
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It was a fleeting statement, one I didn’t think she’d hold on to; after all, she had birthed us alone, diapered and fed us, helped us with homework, kissed and hugged us, poured her love into us.
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I admired that stride; it was like he folded space in two with it.
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and I get refill number three or four and the wine is making my bones loose and it’s giving my hair a red sheen and my breasts are blooming and my eyes feel sultry and wise and the dress is water.
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Mom loved my brother more. Not that she didn’t love me – I felt the wash of her love every day.
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It was like we were exchanging codes, on how to be a father and a daughter, like we’d read about it in a manual, translated from another language, and were doing our best with what we could understand.
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I watched as she added a question mark at the end. Arc, line, space, dot.
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It seemed to happen in springs, the revealing of things.
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I want to be violated by insight.
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It is all about numbers. It is all about sequence. It’s the mathematical logic of being alive.
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The wine glasses are empty except for that one undrinkable red spot at the bottom.
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As soon as you laugh from nerves or make a joke or say something just to say something or get all involved with the bushes, then you blow open a window in your house of desire and it can’t heat up as well. Cold draft comes in.
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Mom flipped through the magazines like the pages needed to be slapped.
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And the warmth of the music inside her, did she believe, for even one glorious second, that her passion had arrived?
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Not getting bored of my own story and/or character is one of the main struggles.
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