My eyelids are my own private cave, he murmured. That I can go to anytime I want.
AIMEE BENDERI didn’t mind the quiet stretches. It was like we were trying out the idea of being side by side.
More Aimee Bender Quotes
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I have had with novel writing, and I have put to bed big chunks of work that just didn’t sustain my interest.
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Pouring over me, but it was a different kind, siphoned from a different, and tamer, body of water. I was her darling daughter; Joseph was her it.
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Listen. Look. Desire is a house. Desire needs closed space. Desire runs out of doors or windows, or slats or pinpricks, it can’t fit under the sky, too large. Close the doors. Close the windows.
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Light is good company, when alone; I took my comfort where I found it, and the warmest yellow bulb in the living-room lamp had become a kind of radiant babysitter all its own.
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But the sky is interesting, it changes all the time.
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A Dorito asks nothing of you, which is its great gift. It only asks that you are not there.
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That at the same time of this very intimate act of concentrating so carefully on the details of our mother’s palm and fingertips.
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That she might not actually know us seemed the humblest thing a mother could admit.
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Mom loved my brother more. Not that she didn’t love me – I felt the wash of her love every day.
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I give boring people something to discuss over corn.
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There’s a gift in your lap and it’s beautifully wrapped and it’s not your birthday.
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If everything kept to its normal progression, we would live with the sadness-cry and then walk-but what really breaks us cleanest are the losses that happen out of order.
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It was a fleeting statement, one I didn’t think she’d hold on to; after all, she had birthed us alone, diapered and fed us, helped us with homework, kissed and hugged us, poured her love into us.
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The most so far, because she found the saddest thing of all to be the simple truth of her capacity to move on.
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You feel wonderful, you feel like somebody knows you’re alive, you feel fear because it could be a bomb, because you think you’re that important.
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