It seems the best work I do is when I am really allowing the unconscious to rule the page and then later I can go back and hack around and make sense of things.
AIMEE BENDERSometimes, she said, mostly to herself, I feel I do not know my children…
More Aimee Bender Quotes
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But what I kept wondering about is this: that first second when she felt her skirt burning, what did she think?
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I don’t think so, I don’t agree. The most unbearable thing I think by far, she said, is hope.
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That she might not actually know us seemed the humblest thing a mother could admit.
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My eyelids are my own private cave, he murmured. That I can go to anytime I want.
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The most so far, because she found the saddest thing of all to be the simple truth of her capacity to move on.
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That’s the thing with handmade items. They still have the person’s mark on them, and when you hold them, you feel less alone.
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I could feel the tears beginning to collect in my throat again, but I pushed them apart, away from each other. Tears are only a threat in groups.
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I felt the crumpled paper that had taken the place of my lungs expand as if released from a fist.
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To see someone you love, in a bad setting, is one of the great barometers of gratitude.
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My lover is experiencing reverse evolution.
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With my hand in his, I looked at all the apartment buildings with rushes of love, peering in the wide streetside windows that revealed living rooms painted in dark burgandies and matte reds.
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It’s such a fraught and exciting and kind of horrible time.
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I’m obsessed with adolescence. I love to write about people in their 20s.
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She is the first gesture that creates a quiet that is full enough to make the baby sleep. My genes, my love, are rubber bands and rope; make yourself a structure you can live inside. Amen.
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I knew if I ate anything of hers again, it would lkely tell me the same message: help me,
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