I was with them for all of it, but more like an echo than a participant.
AIMEE BENDERSometimes, she said, mostly to herself, I feel I do not know my children…
More Aimee Bender Quotes
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To see someone you love, in a bad setting, is one of the great barometers of gratitude.
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Large meadows are lovely for picnics and romping, but they are for the lighter feelings. Meadows do not make me want to write.
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He was also removing all traces of any tiny leftover parts, and suddenly a ritual which I’d always found incestuous and gross seemed to me more like a desperate act on Joseph’s part to get out, to leave, to extract every little last remnant and bring it into open air.
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If everything kept to its normal progression, we would live with the sadness-cry and then walk-but what really breaks us cleanest are the losses that happen out of order.
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We hit the sidewalk, and dropped hands. How I wished, right then, that the whole world was a street.
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I admired that stride; it was like he folded space in two with it.
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I peeled the skin off a grape in slippery little triangles, and I understood then that I would be undressing every item of food I could because my clothes would be staying on.
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Kissing George was a little like rolling in caramel after spending years surviving off rice sticks.
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But I loved George in part because he believed me; because if I stood in a cold, plain room and yelled FIRE, he would walk over and ask me why.
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Light is good company, when alone; I took my comfort where I found it, and the warmest yellow bulb in the living-room lamp had become a kind of radiant babysitter all its own.
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I give boring people something to discuss over corn.
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It seemed to happen in springs, the revealing of things.
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While she cut the mushrooms, she cried more than she had at the grave.
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Mom flipped through the magazines like the pages needed to be slapped.
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I watched as she added a question mark at the end. Arc, line, space, dot.
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