The most so far, because she found the saddest thing of all to be the simple truth of her capacity to move on.
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More Aimee Bender Quotes
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You can ruin anything if you focus at it.
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It’s such a fraught and exciting and kind of horrible time.
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A Dorito asks nothing of you, which is its great gift. It only asks that you are not there.
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It was a fleeting statement, one I didn’t think she’d hold on to; after all, she had birthed us alone, diapered and fed us, helped us with homework, kissed and hugged us, poured her love into us.
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But the sky is interesting, it changes all the time.
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We hit the sidewalk, and dropped hands. How I wished, right then, that the whole world was a street.
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My eyelids are my own private cave, he murmured. That I can go to anytime I want.
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Light is good company, when alone; I took my comfort where I found it, and the warmest yellow bulb in the living-room lamp had become a kind of radiant babysitter all its own.
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I was with them for all of it, but more like an echo than a participant.
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I didn’t mind the quiet stretches. It was like we were trying out the idea of being side by side.
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There’s a gift in your lap and it’s beautifully wrapped and it’s not your birthday.
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You feel wonderful, you feel like somebody knows you’re alive, you feel fear because it could be a bomb, because you think you’re that important.
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She is the first gesture that creates a quiet that is full enough to make the baby sleep. My genes, my love, are rubber bands and rope; make yourself a structure you can live inside. Amen.
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Large meadows are lovely for picnics and romping, but they are for the lighter feelings. Meadows do not make me want to write.
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It was like we were exchanging codes, on how to be a father and a daughter, like we’d read about it in a manual, translated from another language, and were doing our best with what we could understand.
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