It was like we were exchanging codes, on how to be a father and a daughter, like we’d read about it in a manual, translated from another language, and were doing our best with what we could understand.
AIMEE BENDERTo see someone you love, in a bad setting, is one of the great barometers of gratitude.
More Aimee Bender Quotes
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I don’t think so, I don’t agree. The most unbearable thing I think by far, she said, is hope.
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That she might not actually know us seemed the humblest thing a mother could admit.
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We’re all getting too smart. Our brains are just getting bigger and bigger, and the world dries up and dies when there’s too much thought and not enough heart.
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Mom flipped through the magazines like the pages needed to be slapped.
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I am not happy, help me — like a message in a bottle sent in each meal to the eater, and I got it. I got the message.
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Before she knew it was candles, did she think she’d done it herself? With the amazing turns of her hips.
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The most so far, because she found the saddest thing of all to be the simple truth of her capacity to move on.
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To see someone you love, in a bad setting, is one of the great barometers of gratitude.
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Pouring over me, but it was a different kind, siphoned from a different, and tamer, body of water. I was her darling daughter; Joseph was her it.
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That’s the thing with handmade items. They still have the person’s mark on them, and when you hold them, you feel less alone.
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You feel wonderful, you feel like somebody knows you’re alive, you feel fear because it could be a bomb, because you think you’re that important.
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I am the drying meadow; you the unspoken apology; he is the fluctuating distance between mother and son.
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The stories themselves haunt, they stick around, they linger, inhabiting a little corner of the reader’s brain and resurfacing to evoke mystery or sadness or longing.
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It’s a pleasure to dive into Hirshberg’s storytelling skills in American Morons.
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I’m obsessed with adolescence. I love to write about people in their 20s.
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