My lover is experiencing reverse evolution.
AIMEE BENDERIt seems the best work I do is when I am really allowing the unconscious to rule the page and then later I can go back and hack around and make sense of things.
More Aimee Bender Quotes
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She is the first gesture that creates a quiet that is full enough to make the baby sleep. My genes, my love, are rubber bands and rope; make yourself a structure you can live inside. Amen.
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He was also removing all traces of any tiny leftover parts, and suddenly a ritual which I’d always found incestuous and gross seemed to me more like a desperate act on Joseph’s part to get out, to leave, to extract every little last remnant and bring it into open air.
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Before she knew it was candles, did she think she’d done it herself? With the amazing turns of her hips.
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We hit the sidewalk, and dropped hands. How I wished, right then, that the whole world was a street.
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Sometimes, she said, mostly to herself, I feel I do not know my children…
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I’m obsessed with adolescence. I love to write about people in their 20s.
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You feel wonderful, you feel like somebody knows you’re alive, you feel fear because it could be a bomb, because you think you’re that important.
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The writing I tend to think of as ‘good’ is good because it’s mysterious.
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It’s such a fraught and exciting and kind of horrible time.
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I am not happy, help me — like a message in a bottle sent in each meal to the eater, and I got it. I got the message.
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I don’t think so, I don’t agree. The most unbearable thing I think by far, she said, is hope.
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The stories themselves haunt, they stick around, they linger, inhabiting a little corner of the reader’s brain and resurfacing to evoke mystery or sadness or longing.
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I have had with novel writing, and I have put to bed big chunks of work that just didn’t sustain my interest.
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The most so far, because she found the saddest thing of all to be the simple truth of her capacity to move on.
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My eyelids are my own private cave, he murmured. That I can go to anytime I want.
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