We deprive them of the experience that comes from wrestling with their own problems.
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Anand Thakur
We deprive them of the experience that comes from wrestling with their own problems.
ADELE FABERNo wonder children struggle so fiercely to be first or best.
ADELE FABERDeep inside you know / when trouble comes / and there’s no one else to turn to
ADELE FABERThe whole world will tell them what’s wrong with them–out loud and often.
ADELE FABERAnd it’s not hard to understand why in families across the land,
ADELE FABERThe mere existence of an additional child or children in the family could signify Less.
ADELE FABERThe resentment that each child feels for the privileges of the other;
ADELE FABERNo wonder they mobilize all their energy to have more or most. Or better still, all.
ADELE FABERNo one cares / who is better / who is worse / who has more / who has less.
ADELE FABERI was a wonderful parent before I had children.
ADELE FABERFrom the normal irritations of living together, they learn how to assert themselves, defend themselves, compromise.
ADELE FABERThe sibling relationship contains enough emotional dynamite to set off rounds of daily explosions.
ADELE FABEROur job is to let our children know what’s right about them.
ADELE FABERWe have another obligation to our children, and that is to affirm their “rightness.”
ADELE FABERComforters for our todays / Guardians of memories
ADELE FABERFrom their verbal sparring they learn the difference between being clever and being hurtful.
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