Less time alone with parents. Less attention for hurts and disappointments. Less approval for accomplishments. . . .
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Anand Thakur
Less time alone with parents. Less attention for hurts and disappointments. Less approval for accomplishments. . . .
ADELE FABERNo wonder children struggle so fiercely to be first or best.
ADELE FABERAdd to that the envy that one child feels for the accomplishments of the other;
ADELE FABERComforters for our todays / Guardians of memories
ADELE FABERTake two kids in competition for their parents’ love and attention.
ADELE FABERThe resentment that each child feels for the privileges of the other;
ADELE FABERContent in our connectedness / we are brothers and sisters / after all.
ADELE FABERAnd once he’s clear about that reality, he gathers the strength to begin to cope.
ADELE FABERNo wonder they mobilize all their energy to have more or most. Or better still, all.
ADELE FABERFrom their struggles to establish dominance over each other, siblings become tougher and more resilient.
ADELE FABERAnd sometimes, from their envy of each other’s special abilities they become inspired to work harder, persist and achieve.
ADELE FABERThe personal frustrations that they don’t dare let out on anyone else but a brother or sister,
ADELE FABERLet us be different in our homes.
ADELE FABERDeep inside you know / when trouble comes / and there’s no one else to turn to
ADELE FABERNo one cares / who is better / who is worse / who has more / who has less.
ADELE FABERI was an expert on why everyone else was having problems with theirs. Then I had three of my own.
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