To our grudge against our mothers; the way we never let our mothers off the hook for their not meeting our every need.
ADAM PHILLIPSTo grow up is to discover what one is unequal to.
More Adam Phillips Quotes
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Excesses of appetite are self-cures for feelings of hopelessness. ..
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You write to find out what you believe.
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The vocabulary of one’s self-criticism is so impoverished and clichéd.
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When we define ourselves by what we can recognize, by what we can comprehend- rather than, say, by what we can describe
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It is as if to say: if these are not valued – if these forms of wanting and feeling and speaking and doing – are not cultivated and encouraged and rewarded in the child, then the child will be mad.
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Sanity, in other words, becomes a pressing preoccupation as soon as we recognize the importance of recognition.
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There is always a ..belief that by destroying the thing that we love we destroy our needs
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Believing in religion is like believing that adulthood is the solution to childhood.
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Monogamy is a way of getting the versions of ourselves down to the minimum.
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Tragic heroes are failed pragmatists. Their ends are unrealistic and their means are impractical.
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To grow up is to discover what one is unequal to.
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We are children for a very long time.
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We are tyrannized by our blind spots, and by whatever it is about ourselves that we find unacceptable.
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Lovers, of course, are notoriously frantic epistemologists, second only to paranoiacs (and analysts) as readers of signs and wonders.
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People change, but there really are limits.
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