The child..will try to make himself..independent of other people. .
ADAM PHILLIPSThe whole notion of sanity may be an attempt to medicalize morality – to speak of the good in the language of health: to make us more accurate, more scientific in our wanting – but by the same token it becomes a form of moral blackmail.
More Adam Phillips Quotes
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Tragic heroes are failed pragmatists. Their ends are unrealistic and their means are impractical.
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Everybody is dealing with how much of their own aliveness they can bear and how much they need to anesthetize themselves.
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To grow up is to discover what one is unequal to.
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People change, but there really are limits.
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we are continually under threat from what we are unwilling and/or unable to see.
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We are children for a very long time.
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To keep faith with recognition we have to stay recognizable.
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Sanity, in other words, becomes a pressing preoccupation as soon as we recognize the importance of recognition.
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Lovers, of course, are notoriously frantic epistemologists, second only to paranoiacs (and analysts) as readers of signs and wonders.
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The child [uses] ‘doubt about food to hide doubt about love.’
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The whole notion of sanity may be an attempt to medicalize morality – to speak of the good in the language of health: to make us more accurate, more scientific in our wanting – but by the same token it becomes a form of moral blackmail.
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There is nothing more terrorizing than the possibility that nothing is hidden.
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When we define ourselves by what we can recognize, by what we can comprehend- rather than, say, by what we can describe
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There is always a ..belief that by destroying the thing that we love we destroy our needs
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It is as if to say: if these are not valued – if these forms of wanting and feeling and speaking and doing – are not cultivated and encouraged and rewarded in the child, then the child will be mad.
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