The big secret about Art is that no one wants it to be true.
ADAM PHILLIPSWanting to be understood, as adults, can be our most violent form of nostalgia.
More Adam Phillips Quotes
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There is always a ..belief that by destroying the thing that we love we destroy our needs
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we are continually under threat from what we are unwilling and/or unable to see.
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I am always true to myself, that is the problem. Who else could I be true to?
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Wanting to be understood, as adults, can be our most violent form of nostalgia.
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Lovers, of course, are notoriously frantic epistemologists, second only to paranoiacs (and analysts) as readers of signs and wonders.
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There is nothing more terrorizing than the possibility that nothing is hidden.
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It is as if to say: if these are not valued – if these forms of wanting and feeling and speaking and doing – are not cultivated and encouraged and rewarded in the child, then the child will be mad.
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There is nothing more scandalous than a happy marriage
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The child can find out what the object ..might be only by finding ..obstacles to its access
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The child..will try to make himself..independent of other people. .
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When we define ourselves by what we can recognize, by what we can comprehend- rather than, say, by what we can describe
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Believing in religion is like believing that adulthood is the solution to childhood.
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You write to find out what you believe.
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The vocabulary of one’s self-criticism is so impoverished and clichéd.
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The child [uses] ‘doubt about food to hide doubt about love.’
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