It’s remarkable how a stereotype functions as an actual trap. How many angry black women have been caught in the circular logic of that phrase? When you aren’t being listened to, why wouldn’t you get louder? If you’re written off as angry or emotional, doesn’t that just cause more of the same?
MICHELLE OBAMAThe lesson being that in life you control what you can.
More Michelle Obama Quotes
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Even if we didn’t know the context, we were instructed to remember that context existed. Everyone on earth, they’d tell us, was carrying around an unseen history, and that alone deserved some tolerance.
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I just wanted to achieve. Or maybe I didn’t want to be dismissed as incapable of achievement.
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Hearing them, I realized that they weren’t at all smarter than the rest of us. They were simply emboldened, floating on an ancient tide of superiority, buoyed by the fact that history had never told them anything different.
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It hurts to live after someone has died. It just does.
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When you’re First Lady, America shows itself to you in its extremes.
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The noise doesn’t go away, but the most successful people I know have figured out how to live with it, to lean on the people who believe in them, and to push onward with their goals.
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You don’t really know how attached you are until you move away, until you’ve experienced what it means to be dislodged, a cork floating on the ocean of another place.
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I hate diversity workshops. Real change comes from having enough comfort to be really honest and say something very uncomfortable.
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I was determined to be someone who told the truth, using my voice to lift up the voiceless when I could, and to not disappear on people in need. I understood that when I showed up somewhere,
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I began to understand that his version of hope reached far beyond mine: It was one thing to get yourself out of a stuck place, I realized. It was another thing entirely to try and get the place itself unstuck.
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The truth is, in order to get things like universal health care and a revamped education system, then someone is going to have to give up a piece of their pie so that someone else can have more.
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The realities are that, you know, as a black man, you know, Barack can get shot going to the gas station, you know.
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You find ways to adapt. If you’re in it forever, there’s really no choice.
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Don’t be afraid. Be focused. Be determined. Be hopeful. Be empowered.
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Fulfillment, I’m sure, struck her as a rich person’s conceit.
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