For me, becoming isn’t about arriving somewhere or achieving a certain aim. I see it instead as forward motion, a means of evolving, a way to reach continuously toward a better self. The journey doesn’t end.
MICHELLE OBAMAHere’s a memory, which like most memories is imperfect and subjective—collected long ago like a beach pebble and slipped into the pocket of my mind.
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I’ve learned that it’s harder to hate up close.
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What do you want to be when you grow up? As if growing up is finite. As if at some point you become something and that’s the end.
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Inspiration on its own was shallow; you had to back it up with hard work.
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The easiest way to disregard a woman’s voice is to package her as a scold.
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It felt perverse, how the world just carried on. How everyone was still here, except for my Suzanne.
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The lesson being that in life you control what you can.
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In my blinding drive to excel, in my need to do things perfectly, I’d missed the signs and taken the wrong road.
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I have had to learn that my voice has value. And if I don’t use it, what’s the point of being in the room?
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Do we settle for the world as it is, or do we work for the world as it should be?
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Hearing them, I realized that they weren’t at all smarter than the rest of us. They were simply emboldened, floating on an ancient tide of superiority, buoyed by the fact that history had never told them anything different.
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Bullies were scared people hiding inside scary people.
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I grew up with a disabled dad in a too-small house with not much money in a starting-to-fail neighborhood, and I also grew up surrounded by love and music in a diverse city in a country where an education can take you far. I had nothing or I had everything. It depends on which way you want to tell it.
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I like the idea of being rigorous about friendship.
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This may be the fundamental problem with caring a lot about what others think: It can put you on the established path—the my-isn’t-that-impressive path—and keep you there for a long time.
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But as I’ve said, failure is a feeling long before it’s an actual result. And for me, it felt like that’s exactly what she was planting—a suggestion of failure long before I’d even tried to succeed.
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