Much depends on your attitude. If you are filled with negative judgment and anger, then you will feel separate from other people. You will feel lonely.
TUTU DESMONDThere is nothing more difficult than waking someone who is only pretending to be asleep.
More Tutu Desmond Quotes
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There comes a point where we need to stop just pulling people out of the river. We need to go upstream to find out why they’re falling in.
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When we see others as the enemy, we risk becoming what we hate. When we oppress others, we end up oppressing ourselves. All of our humanity is dependent upon recognizing the humanity in others.
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We are made for goodness. We are made for love. We are made for friendliness. We are made for togetherness. We are made for all of the beautiful things that you and I know.
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Out of the cacophony of random suffering and chaos that can mark human life, the life artist sees or creates a symphony of meaning and order.
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Religion is like a knife: you can either use it to cut bread, or stick in someone’s back.
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I do believe there are monstrous and evil acts, but I do not believe those who commit such acts are monsters or evil.
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You don’t choose your family. They are God’s gift to you, as you are to them.
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A very important but difficult piece of renewing relationships is accepting responsibility for our part in any conflict.
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God is transforming the world now–through us–because God loves us.
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We are fragile creatures, and it is from this weakness, not despite it, that we discover the possibility of true joy.
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Discovering more joy does not, save us from the inevitability of hardship and heartbreak.
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A person is a person through other persons.
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We do not heal in isolation. When we reach out and connect with one another—when we tell the story, name the hurt, grant forgiveness, and renew or release the relationship—our suffering begins to transform.
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We may be surprised at the people we find in heaven. God has a soft spot for sinners. His standards are quite low.
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Dear Child of God, I am sorry to say that suffering is not optional.
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