If you are setting out to be joyful you are not going to end up being joyful. You’re going to find yourself turned in on yourself. It’s like a flower. You open, you blossom, really because of other people.
TUTU DESMONDDiscovering more joy does not, save us from the inevitability of hardship and heartbreak.
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There comes a point where we need to stop just pulling people out of the river. We need to go upstream to find out why they’re falling in.
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I wish I could shut up, but I can’t, and I won’t.
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You don’t choose your family. They are God’s gift to you, as you are to them.
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The path of joy was connection and the path of sorrow was separation.
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Forgiveness is simply about understanding that every one of us is both inherently good and inherently flawed.
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Dear Child of God, I write these words because we all experience sadness, we all come at times to despair, and we all lose hope that the suffering in our lives and in the world will ever end.
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Within every hopeless situation and every seemingly hopeless person lies the possibility of transformation
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If you are neutral in situations of injustice, you have chosen the side of the oppressor. If an elephant has its foot on the tail of a mouse, and you say that you are neutral, the mouse will not appreciate your neutrality.
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If you want to keep people subjugated, the last thing you place in their hands is a Bible. There’s nothing more radical, nothing more revolutionary, nothing more subversive against injustice and oppression than the Bible.
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We may be surprised at the people we find in heaven. God has a soft spot for sinners. His standards are quite low.
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We do not heal in isolation. When we reach out and connect with one another—when we tell the story, name the hurt, grant forgiveness, and renew or release the relationship—our suffering begins to transform.
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A very important but difficult piece of renewing relationships is accepting responsibility for our part in any conflict.
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A person is a person through other persons; you can’t be human in isolation; you are human only in relationships.
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In the end what matters is not how good we are but how good God is. Not how much we love Him but how much He loves us. And God loves us whoever we are, whatever we’ve done or failed to do, whatever we believe or can’t.
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Dear Child of God, I am sorry to say that suffering is not optional.
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