God is transforming the world now–through us–because God loves us.
TUTU DESMONDWe need other human beings in order to be human. I am because other people are. A person is entitled to a stable community life, and the first of these communities is the family.
More Tutu Desmond Quotes
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A person is a person through other persons.
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We are not responsible for what breaks us, but we can be responsible for what puts us back together again. Naming the hurt is how we begin to repair our broken parts.
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Much depends on your attitude. If you are filled with negative judgment and anger, then you will feel separate from other people. You will feel lonely.
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It is through weakness and vulnerability that most of us learn empathy and compassion and discover our soul.
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When we see others as the enemy, we risk becoming what we hate. When we oppress others, we end up oppressing ourselves. All of our humanity is dependent upon recognizing the humanity in others.
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Forgiveness is simply about understanding that every one of us is both inherently good and inherently flawed.
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I wish I could shut up, but I can’t, and I won’t.
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Our maturity will be judged by how well we are able to agree to disagree and yet continue to love one another, to care for one another, and cherish one another and seek the greater good of the other.
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If you are neutral in situations of injustice, you have chosen the side of the oppressor. If an elephant has its foot on the tail of a mouse, and you say that you are neutral, the mouse will not appreciate your neutrality.
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If you are setting out to be joyful you are not going to end up being joyful. You’re going to find yourself turned in on yourself. It’s like a flower. You open, you blossom, really because of other people.
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Though wrong gratifies in the moment, good yields its gifts over a lifetime.
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We have hardship without becoming hard. We have heartbreaks without being broken.
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We do not heal in isolation. When we reach out and connect with one another—when we tell the story, name the hurt, grant forgiveness, and renew or release the relationship—our suffering begins to transform.
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Forgiveness is truly the grace by which we enable another person to get up, and get up with dignity, to begin anew.
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We are fragile creatures, and it is from this weakness, not despite it, that we discover the possibility of true joy.
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