What is much harder to handle is the sense that you have to live up to the mark someone else has set for you. The grades become too important, the competition too frantic, the fear of disappointing those who believe in you turns into an overwhelming nightmare.
SYDNEY J. HARRISIt’s odd, and a little unsettling, to reflect upon the fact that English is the only major language in which “I” is capitalized; in many other languages “You” is capitalized and the “i” is lower case.” —
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There are always too many Democratic congressmen, too many Republican congressmen, and never enough U.S. congressmen.
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The best combination of parents consists of a father who is gentle beneath his firmness, and a mother who is firm beneath her gentleness.
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A winner knows how much he still has to learn, even when he is considered an expert by others; a loser wants to be considered an expert by others before he has learned enough to know how little he knows.
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Regret for the things we did can be tempered by time; it is regret for the things we did not do that is inconsolable.
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Usually, if we hate, it is the shadow of the person that we hate, rather than the substance.
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Enemies, as well as lovers, come to resemble each other over a period of time.
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We may hate a person because he reminds us of someone we feared and disliked when younger; or because we see in him some gross caricature of what we find repugnant in ourself; or because he symbolizes an attitude that seems to threaten us.
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Between the semi-educated, who offer simplistic answers to complex questions, and the overeducated, who offer complicated answers to simple questions, it is a wonder that any questions get satisfactorily answered at all.
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Happiness is a direction, not a place.
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Love makes everything lovely; hate concentrates itself on the object of its hatred.
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Time is love, above all else. It is the most precious commodity in the world and should be lavished on those we care most about.
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Patriotism is proud of a country’s virtues and eager to correct its deficiencies; it also acknowledges the legitimate patriotism of other countries, with their own specific virtues.
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Elitism is the slur directed at merit by mediocrity.
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The most important thing in an argument, next to being right, is to leave an escape hatch for your opponent, so that he can gracefully swing over to your side without too much apparent loss of face.
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Man’s unique agony as a species consists in his perpetual conflict between the desire to stand out and the need to blend in.
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