When we inform, we lead from strength; when we communicate, we lead from weakness-and it is precisely this confession of mortality that engages the ears, heads and hearts of those we want to enlist as allies in a common cause.
SYDNEY J. HARRISTake away grievances from some people and you remove their reasons for living; most of us are nourished by hope, but a considerable minority get psychic nutrition from their resentments, and would waste away purposelessly without them.
More Sydney J. Harris Quotes
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A cynic is not merely one who reads bitter lessons from the past, his is also one who is permanently disappointed in the future.
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Real loneliness consists not in being alone, but in being with the wrong person, in the suffocating darkness of a room in which no deep communication is possible.
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Knowledge fills a large brain; it merely inflates a small one.
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If you’re not part of the solution, you’re part of the problem, but the perpetual human predicament is that the answer soon poses its own problems.
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And to assert defensively at the outset that he is happily married, the father of four children and the one-time adornment of his college boxing, track and tennis teams.
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The time to relax is when you don’t have time for it.
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A winner rebukes and forgives; a loser is too timid to rebuke and too petty to forgive.
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We have not passed that subtle line between childhood and adulthood until we have stopped saying ‘It got lost,’ and say, ‘I lost it.’
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Many married couples separate because they quarrel incessantly, but just as many separate because they were never honest enough or courageous enough to quarrel when they should have.
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An idealist believes the short run doesn’t count. A cynic believes the long run doesn’t matter.
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Why do most Americans look up to education and down upon educated people?
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Nothing is as easy to make as a promise this winter to do something next summer; this is how commencement speakers are caught.
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There’s no point in burying a hatchet if you’re going to put up a marker on the site.
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And nobody is more aware of this difference (although unconsciously) than a child. Only an authentic person can evoke a good response in the core of the other person; only person is resonant to person.
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Our dilemma is that we hate change and love it at the same time; what we really want is for things to remain the same but get better.
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