Real loneliness consists not in being alone, but in being with the wrong person, in the suffocating darkness of a room in which no deep communication is possible.
SYDNEY J. HARRISTake away grievances from some people and you remove their reasons for living; most of us are nourished by hope, but a considerable minority get psychic nutrition from their resentments, and would waste away purposelessly without them.
More Sydney J. Harris Quotes
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People decline invitations when they are “indisposed” physically, and I wish they would do likewise when they feel indisposed emotionally. A person has no more right to attend a party with a head full of venom than with a throat full of virus.
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If a small thing has the power to make you angry, does that not indicate something about your size?
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And nobody is more aware of this difference (although unconsciously) than a child. Only an authentic person can evoke a good response in the core of the other person; only person is resonant to person.
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Skepticism is not an end in itself; it is a tool for the discovery of truths.
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Most of us go almost all the way through life as complete strangers to ourselves – so how can we know anyone else?
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The founder of every creed from Jesus Christ to Karl Marx, would be appalled to return to earth and see what has been made of that creed, not by its enemies, but by its most devoted adherents.
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Life is, if anything, the art of combination. Of discrimination. Of freely picking one’s own personal pattern out of a hundred choices. Not letting it be picked for you-either by the Establishment, or by the Rebels. Conformity of Hip is no better than Conformity of Square.
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Marriages we regard as the happiest are those in which each of the partners believes he or she got the best of it.
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Every morning I take out my bankbook, stare at it, shudder – and turn quickly to my typewriter.
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The best thing you can give children, next to good habits, are good memories.
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Happiness is a direction, not a place.
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There are always too many Democratic congressmen, too many Republican congressmen, and never enough U.S. congressmen.
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Why do most Americans look up to education and down upon educated people?
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Patriotism is proud of a country’s virtues and eager to correct its deficiencies; it also acknowledges the legitimate patriotism of other countries, with their own specific virtues.
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And to assert defensively at the outset that he is happily married, the father of four children and the one-time adornment of his college boxing, track and tennis teams.
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