No one but me ever put a hand on me to feel that baby. No one wanted to put his ear against it and listen…You shouldn’t have a baby if there’s no one who wants to feel it kick or listen to it move.
JOHN IRVINGNo adult in my family would ever tell me anything about who my father was. I knew from an older cousin – only four years older than I am – everything, or what little I could discover about him.
More John Irving Quotes
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In the world according to Garp, we are all terminal cases
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People are either attracted to the unseemly or disapproving of it, or both; yet we try to sound superior to the unseemly by pretending to be amused by it or indifferent to it.
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Life forces enough final decisions on us. We should have the sense to avoid as many of the unnecessary ones as we can.
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What has been violated here is your freedom of choice, and every woman’s freedom of choice, too.
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Just when you begin thinking of yourself as memorable, you run into someone who can’t even remember having met you
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Self-hatred is worse than loneliness.
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It is exhausting to be seventeen and not know who you are.
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People only ask questions when they’re ready to hear the answers.
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So, I don’t work in terms of real time. I don’t work in a timely fashion.
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My life is a reading list.
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A part of adolescence is feelimg that there’s no one else around who’s enough like youself to understand you.
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I will tell you what is my overriding perception of the last twenty years: that we are a civilization careening toward a succession of anticlimaxes – toward an infinity of unsatisfying, and disagreeable endings.
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You’re nice,’ Cushie told him, squeezing his hand. ‘And you’re my oldest friend.’ But they both must have known that you can know someone all your life and never quite be friends.
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Children are most impressed with the importance of a moment when they witness a parent breaking the parents’ own rule.
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There is no straightforward negotiation with a four year old.
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