No adult in my family would ever tell me anything about who my father was. I knew from an older cousin – only four years older than I am – everything, or what little I could discover about him.
JOHN IRVINGThe former stewardess glared at her ex-pilot husband as if he had been speaking, and thinking, in the absence of sufficient oxygen.
More John Irving Quotes
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If you feel strongly about people having abortions, don’t have one. But we are a country – USA – that likes to be punitive. We want to restrict. It is a kind of religious fervor run amuck.
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I certainly think Obama is the most hopeful president I’ve seen in the country since John Kennedy.
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I’m not a movie person. They’re collaborations of the worst kind. You must compromise yourself to many interests that are venal and crass and do not have your best interests at heart.
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So, I don’t work in terms of real time. I don’t work in a timely fashion.
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It is exhausting to be seventeen and not know who you are.
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A writer’s job is to imagine everything so personally that the fiction is as vivid as memories.
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It happens to many teenagers-that moment when you feel full of resentment or distrust for those adults you once loved unquestioningly.
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People only ask questions when they’re ready to hear the answers.
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Writing a novel is actually searching for victims. As I write I keep looking for casualties. The stories uncover the casualties.
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There are always suicides among people who are unable to say what they mean.
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It doesn’t really matter who said it – it’s so obviously true. Before you can write anything, you have to notice something.
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Being reviewed is being condescended to by your inferiors.
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It’s a no-win argument – that business of what we’re born with and what our environment does to us. And it’s a boring argument, because it simplifies the mysteries that attend both our birth and our growth.
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Self-hatred is worse than loneliness.
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I have always believed that, in a story, if something traumatic or calamitous enough happens to a kid at a formative age, that will make him or her the adult they become.
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