Usually, if we hate, it is the shadow of the person that we hate, rather than the substance.
SYDNEY J. HARRISYou may be sure that when a man begins to call himself a realist he is preparing to do something that he is secretly ashamed of doing.
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Many people feel “guilty” about things they shouldn’t feel guilty about, in order to shut out feelings of guilt about things they should feel guilty about.
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Man’s unique agony as a species consists in his perpetual conflict between the desire to stand out and the need to blend in.
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When we have “second thoughts” about something, our first thoughts don’t seem like thoughts at all – just feelings.
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Our dilemma is that we hate change and love it at the same time; what we really want is for things to remain the same but get better.
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And most of the failures in parent-child relationships, from my observation, begin when the child begins to acquire a mind and a will of its own, to make independent decisions and to question the omnipotence or the wisdom of the parent.
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Every morning I take out my bankbook, stare at it, shudder – and turn quickly to my typewriter.
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The art of living consists in knowing which impulses to obey and which must be made to obey.
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The pessimist sees only the tunnel; the optimist sees the light at the end of the tunnel; the realist sees the tunnel and the light – and the next tunnel.
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All significant achievement comes from daring from experiment from the willingness to risk failure.
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We have not passed that subtle line between childhood and adulthood until we have stopped saying ‘It got lost,’ and say, ‘I lost it.’
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As the horsepower in modern automobiles steadily rises, the congestion of traffic steadily lowers the average possible speed of your car. This is known as Progress.
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A cynic is not merely one who reads bitter lessons from the past, his is also one who is permanently disappointed in the future.
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Nothing is as easy to make as a promise this winter to do something next summer; this is how commencement speakers are caught.
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Men make counterfeit money; in many more cases, money makes counterfeit men.
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The world has always been betrayed by decent men with bad ideals.
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