The severest test of character is not so much the ability to keep a secret as it is, when the secret is finally out, to refrain from disclosing that you knew it all along.
SYDNEY J. HARRISBeing yourself is not remaining what you were, or being satisfied with what you are. It is the point of departure and far from the goal.
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Regret for the things we did can be tempered by time; it is regret for the things we did not do that is inconsolable.
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Men make counterfeit money; in many more cases, money makes counterfeit men.
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Making out an invitation list for a party brings out the worst in everyone. It is then that our most ruthless estimates of the people we know come into play.
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Many people feel “guilty” about things they shouldn’t feel guilty about, in order to shut out feelings of guilt about things they should feel guilty about.
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A university is not, primarily, a place in which to learn how to make a living; it is a place in which to learn how to be more fully a human being, how to draw upon one’s resources, how to discipline the mind and expand the imagination; how to make some sense out of the big world we will shortly be thrown into.
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What is much harder to handle is the sense that you have to live up to the mark someone else has set for you. The grades become too important, the competition too frantic, the fear of disappointing those who believe in you turns into an overwhelming nightmare.
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When we have “second thoughts” about something, our first thoughts don’t seem like thoughts at all – just feelings.
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Patriotism is proud of a country’s virtues and eager to correct its deficiencies; it also acknowledges the legitimate patriotism of other countries, with their own specific virtues.
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The greatest educational dogma is also its greatest fallacy: the belief that what must be learned can necessarily be taught.
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Why do most Americans look up to education and down upon educated people?
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A winner knows how much he still has to learn, even when he is considered an expert by others; a loser wants to be considered an expert by others before he has learned enough to know how little he knows.
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Real loneliness consists not in being alone, but in being with the wrong person, in the suffocating darkness of a room in which no deep communication is possible.
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Time is love, above all else. It is the most precious commodity in the world and should be lavished on those we care most about.
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All significant achievement comes from daring from experiment from the willingness to risk failure.
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The public examination of homosexuality in our contemporary life is still so coated with distasteful moral connotations that even a reviewer is bound to wonder uneasily why he was selected to evaluate a book on the subject.
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