but writers, Garp knew, were just observers – good and ruthless imitators of human behavior.
JOHN IRVINGNo one but me ever put a hand on me to feel that baby. No one wanted to put his ear against it and listen…You shouldn’t have a baby if there’s no one who wants to feel it kick or listen to it move.
More John Irving Quotes
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It is hard work and great art to make life not so serious.
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There are always suicides among people who are unable to say what they mean.
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They all settled into being the kind of friends when they heard from each other…. or when they occasionally got together. And when they were not in touch, they did not think of one another.
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You’re nice,’ Cushie told him, squeezing his hand. ‘And you’re my oldest friend.’ But they both must have known that you can know someone all your life and never quite be friends.
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Our memory is a monster; you forget it – it does not.
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The powerful wind swept his hair away from his face; he leaned his chest into the wind, as if he stood on the deck of a ship heading into the wind, slicing through the waves of an ocean he’d not yet seen.
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It is exhausting to be seventeen and not know who you are.
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I grew up in a family where, through my teenage years, I was expected to go to church on Sunday. It wasn’t terribly painful.
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You know, everybody dies. My parents died. Your father died. Everybody dies. I’m going to die too. So will you. The thing is, to have a life before we die. It can be a real adventure having a life
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I have always believed that, in a story, if something traumatic or calamitous enough happens to a kid at a formative age, that will make him or her the adult they become.
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What is hardest to accept about the passage of time is that the people who once mattered the most to us wind up in parentheses.
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…I suddenly realized what small towns are. They are places where you grow up with the peculiar-you live next door to the strange and the unlikely for so long that everything and everyone become commonplace.
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I still believe in getting married in churches and baptizing children. I go through those motions.
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Just when you begin thinking of yourself as memorable, you run into someone who can’t even remember having met you
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…there was no more safety to be found in love than there was to be found in a virus.
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