A part of adolescence is feelimg that there’s no one else around who’s enough like youself to understand you.
JOHN IRVINGA part of adolescence is feelimg that there’s no one else around who’s enough like youself to understand you.
JOHN IRVINGbut good friends are nothing to each other if they are not supportive.
JOHN IRVINGI have no respect for the right-to-life position, though I have every respect for an individual who says, “I could never have that procedure, I could never see a film or read a book about that procedure.” It doesn’t bother me if people feel that way.
JOHN IRVINGReligious freedom should work two ways: we should be free to practice the religion of our choice, but we must also be free from having someone else’s religion practiced on us.
JOHN IRVINGIt is exhausting to be seventeen and not know who you are.
JOHN IRVINGIf you asked me one day, I might say, “Well, sometimes I feel a little bit religious.” If you asked me another day, I’d just say flat out, “No.”
JOHN IRVINGYou’ve got to get obsessed and stay obsessed.
JOHN IRVINGThe unspoken factor is love. The reason I can work so hard at my writing is that it’s not work for me.
JOHN IRVINGNearly everything seems a letdown after a writer has finished writing something.
JOHN IRVINGThe main character and the most important character are not always the same person – you have to know the difference.
JOHN IRVINGIf pride is a sin … moral pride is the greatest sin.
JOHN IRVINGYou only grow by coming to the end of something and by beginning something else.
JOHN IRVINGWhen writing a novel, I’m not smart enough to know how to foreshadow something if I don’t know what it is.
JOHN IRVINGWhat a phrase that is: ‘that explains everything!’ I know better than to think anything ‘explains everything’ today.
JOHN IRVINGI have always believed that, in a story, if something traumatic or calamitous enough happens to a kid at a formative age, that will make him or her the adult they become.
JOHN IRVINGYou can’t say you’re going to ban something in the name of good taste, because then you have directed someone to play the role of good-taste police. We – Americans – permit bad taste in this country. In fact, we even encourage it.
JOHN IRVING