They all settled into being the kind of friends when they heard from each other…. or when they occasionally got together. And when they were not in touch, they did not think of one another.
JOHN IRVINGThe gardener had a dread of small women; he’d always imagined them to have an anger disproportionate to their size.
More John Irving Quotes
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The way you define yourself as a writer is that you write every time you have a free minute. If you didn’t behave that way you would never do anything.
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In the world according to her father, Jenny Garp knew, we must have energy. Her famous grandmother, Jenny Fields, once thought of us as Externals, Vital Organs, Absentees, and Goners. But in the world according to Garp, we are all terminal cases.
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No one could have fathomed what a life he’d led, for it was chiefly a life lived in his mind.
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When writing a novel, I’m not smart enough to know how to foreshadow something if I don’t know what it is.
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We permit bad taste in this country. In fact, we even encourage it – and reward it in all manner of ways.
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Life,” Garp wrote, “is sadly not structured like a good old-fashioned novel. Instead an end occurs when those who are meant to peter out have petered out. All that is left is memory. But even a nihilist has memory.
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A sentence boiled in her, but she could not yet see it clearly.
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I still believe in getting married in churches and baptizing children. I go through those motions.
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Self-hatred is worse than loneliness.
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You’re nice,’ Cushie told him, squeezing his hand. ‘And you’re my oldest friend.’ But they both must have known that you can know someone all your life and never quite be friends.
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What a phrase that is: ‘that explains everything!’ I know better than to think anything ‘explains everything’ today.
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What is hardest to accept about the passage of time is that the people who once mattered the most to us wind up in parentheses.
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…I suddenly realized what small towns are. They are places where you grow up with the peculiar-you live next door to the strange and the unlikely for so long that everything and everyone become commonplace.
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Maybe television causes cancer, Garp thinks; but his real irritation is a writer’s irritation: he knows that wherever the TV glows, there sits someone who isn’t reading.
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The gardener had a dread of small women; he’d always imagined them to have an anger disproportionate to their size.
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