As incredible as it sounds, an unhappy man does not realize that happiness is better than unhappiness. Knowing only his own concealed anguish, he worships it, which is the same as self-worship.
VERNON HOWARDExamine every action and reaction. Do you act naturally or do you act because you feel compelled? If you feel compelled, stop. Compulsion is slavery. Example: Refuse to go along with the crowd.
More Vernon Howard Quotes
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The world consists of imaginary people, claiming imaginary virtues and suffering from imaginary happiness.
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Do not let them deceive you into assuming that they are creative forces; they are not. They are thieves of genuine powers. As always, your awareness of their thievery is your first fine step toward casting them out.
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No one can tell you what is right for you except yourself. So start telling yourself what to do. If you blunder for ten years while thinking for yourself, that is rich treasure when compared with living these ten years under the mental domination of another.
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See human nonsense as nonsense and save years of trying to make sense out of it.
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To change what you get you must change who you are.
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There is no way reality can be prevented from flowing the way it flows. It is our vain attempts to force it to flow in the service of our imaginary needs which sets us in painful conflict with our- selves and nature.
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When told that man lives in delusion everyone thinks of himself as the exception; hence his delusion.
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You have your emergency plan ready. And in simple language what that emergency plan is, what you put into operation, is called worry. If you can worry you are occupied, and what an incredible human situation it is!
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When you are genuinely strong, you neither attack nor defend and so retain your energy.
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Don’t try to live. Let yourself be lived.
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All forms of self-defeating behavior are unseen and unconscious, which is why their existence is denied.
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Resistance to the disturbance is the disturbance.
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A person obsessed with the need to be happy will never be so. The obsession is the obstruction.
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We are slaves to whatever we don’t understand.
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We must become acquainted with our emotional household: we must see our feelings as they actually are, not as we assume they are. This breaks their hypnotic and damaging hold on us.
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