What is much harder to handle is the sense that you have to live up to the mark someone else has set for you. The grades become too important, the competition too frantic, the fear of disappointing those who believe in you turns into an overwhelming nightmare.
SYDNEY J. HARRISIf you’re not part of the solution, you’re part of the problem, but the perpetual human predicament is that the answer soon poses its own problems.
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The founder of every creed from Jesus Christ to Karl Marx, would be appalled to return to earth and see what has been made of that creed, not by its enemies, but by its most devoted adherents.
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When I hear somebody sigh, ‘Life is hard,’ I am always tempted to ask, ‘Compared to what?’
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We may hate a person because he reminds us of someone we feared and disliked when younger; or because we see in him some gross caricature of what we find repugnant in ourself; or because he symbolizes an attitude that seems to threaten us.
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A man will lay down his life for his friend but will not sacrifice his eardrums.
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Regret for the things we did can be tempered by time; it is regret for the things we did not do that is inconsolable.
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The whole purpose of education is to turn mirrors into windows.
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Never let your fears be the boundaries of your dreams. Happiness is a direction, not a place.
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We truly possess only what we are able to renounce; otherwise, we are simply possessed by our possessions.
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An idealist believes the short run doesn’t count. A cynic believes the long run doesn’t matter.
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Atheism, on the other hand, is as unyielding and dogmatic about religious belief as true believers are about heathens. It tries to use reason to demolish a structure that is not built upon reason.
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Time is love, above all else. It is the most precious commodity in the world and should be lavished on those we care most about.
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And nobody is more aware of this difference (although unconsciously) than a child. Only an authentic person can evoke a good response in the core of the other person; only person is resonant to person.
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People decline invitations when they are “indisposed” physically, and I wish they would do likewise when they feel indisposed emotionally. A person has no more right to attend a party with a head full of venom than with a throat full of virus.
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If a small thing has the power to make you angry, does that not indicate something about your size?
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As the horsepower in modern automobiles steadily rises, the congestion of traffic steadily lowers the average possible speed of your car. This is known as Progress.
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