Take away grievances from some people and you remove their reasons for living; most of us are nourished by hope, but a considerable minority get psychic nutrition from their resentments, and would waste away purposelessly without them.
SYDNEY J. HARRISAnd most of the failures in parent-child relationships, from my observation, begin when the child begins to acquire a mind and a will of its own, to make independent decisions and to question the omnipotence or the wisdom of the parent.
More Sydney J. Harris Quotes
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Middle Age is that perplexing time of life when we hear two voices calling us, one saying, ‘Why not?’ and the other, ‘Why bother?’
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A winner rebukes and forgives; a loser is too timid to rebuke and too petty to forgive.
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When we have “second thoughts” about something, our first thoughts don’t seem like thoughts at all – just feelings.
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The public examination of homosexuality in our contemporary life is still so coated with distasteful moral connotations that even a reviewer is bound to wonder uneasily why he was selected to evaluate a book on the subject.
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The best combination of parents consists of a father who is gentle beneath his firmness, and a mother who is firm beneath her gentleness.
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The loner may be respected, but he is always resented by his colleagues, for he seems to be passing a critical judgment on them, when he may be simply making a limiting statement about himself.
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More trouble is caused in this world by indiscreet answers than by indiscreet questions.
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It’s surprising how many persons go through life without ever recognizing that their feelings toward other people are largely determined by their feelings toward themselves, and if you’re not comfortable within yourself, you can’t be comfortable with others.
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People who think they’re generous to a fault usually think that’s their only fault.
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Our dilemma is that we hate change and love it at the same time; what we really want is for things to remain the same but get better.
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Time is love, above all else. It is the most precious commodity in the world and should be lavished on those we care most about.
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Honesty consists of the unwillingness to lie to others; maturity, which is equally hard to attain, consists of the unwillingness to lie to oneself.
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We truly possess only what we are able to renounce; otherwise, we are simply possessed by our possessions.
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Between the semi-educated, who offer simplistic answers to complex questions, and the overeducated, who offer complicated answers to simple questions, it is a wonder that any questions get satisfactorily answered at all.
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The time to relax is when you don’t have time for it.
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